Whether this lives in the land of ridiculousness, silly banter, or a real possibility, some couples share who their "free pass" person is with each other. He or she is the one person allowed into the world of fantasy … to share a moment of passion without any repercussions. After all — ain't nothing wrong with a little fantasy, right? And it's okay to admit it — we've all got that one person in our heads … no shame!
This thought of indiscretion in a relationship is often just that — purely for fun, and solely to spend a little moment fantasizing about someone other than a partner. Some of these responses are purely chosen by looks alone, but others are more complex … with women finding a person's deeds and doings only adding to their sex appeal. What was also revealed is that some couples have an ongoing discussion about these free passes — and may even share the same person as their number one choice.
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It's among the ultimate of "what ifs" and allows couples a look into their naughty sides or wildest dreams. We polled women to find out who their free pass is and acquired some fascinating eye candy. Prepare for a feast of the eyes, a scroll into the land of make-believe, and one that may just make add a new person to someone's free pass list.
Ryan Gosling
"Gosling is just so … sexy." – Jen D.
Ryan Reynolds
"I have a recent thing for Ryan Reynolds! After I saw an interview with him so lovingly talk about his wife and kids, I've wanted to hump his head. Any man who loves his family is hot!" – Chasity V.W.
"My free pass is Ryan Reynolds. He's funny and a family man. That to me is a lethal combo." – Susan R.C.
Josh Holloway
"When I was coupled, Josh Holloway wasn’t just my free pass, he was my free pass sperm donor!" – Jennifer K.
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Charlie Hunnam
"Charlie Hunnam." – Sandy V.
"If I had to pick a guy, I'd pick Charlie for sure." – Katie K.
"Holy god." – Amy K.
Idris Elba
"Mine is idris Elba. My husband's is probably one of those tennis sisters." – Amy K.
Dave Matthews
"Dave Matthews. Kind of handsome, but very sexy. My distant love affair has been going on since 1994. His creativity and artistry turn me on. And that raspy voice subdues me. DMB has written the soundtrack to my love affair with my husband. It's woven in our fabric. He's getting older and so am I. My husband and I agree, he's my free pass. Of course, he still has Rachel McAdams." – Chasity V.W.
Eddie Vedder
"Eddie Vedder. No words needed." – Christina V.
Dwayne Johnson
"The Rock. I mean …." – Tiffany K.
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Mark Ruffalo
"Mark Ruffalo. He's handsome and he's a social justice warrior! What more could you want?" – Meredith P.
Hugh Laurie
"Sadly I'm too much of a Scorpio to allow this kind of thing, ha! Which is fine, since it's doubtful I'll get a chance to meet up with Hugh Laurie." – Jacque B.C.
Robert Plant
"Or Robert Plant." – Jacque B.C.
Salma Hayek
"She's mine." – Katie K.
"Love her even more now." – Amy K.
Kate McKinnon
"Kate McKinnon … for both my husband and I." – Phoebe N.
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Luke Bryan
"Luke Bryan … on his truck." – Tricia R.
Matthew McConaughey
"I remember telling my friends when that movie came out how hot Matthew McConaughey was and all my friends were like 'Gross! He's the creepy older guy' then they saw him in real life." – Melissa D.
"Alright. Alright. Alright." – Sandy V.
Bono
"That's tough, just one? It's a toss up between Bono and Patrick Dempsey or John Cusack. Seems I'm stuck in the '80s." – Kim A.
Michael Fassbender
"It once was Salma Hayek and Edward Norton, but, they're not together any longer … however, now there's Alicia Vikander and Michael Fassbender …." – Bebhinn D.
"Michael Fassbender." – Wendy H.
Orlando Bloom
"I'm torn. Mine is either Natalie Dormer (I don't even care if half her head is shaved) or Orlando Bloom in full Legolas costume. And he'd have to speak to me in elvish the entire time. My fiancé says it's fair to have a male and female choice!" – Christie H.
Sam Heughan
"My husband and I had this conversation not long ago. It's Sam Heughan for me. Just look at him. He also plays the dreamboat Jamie Fraser in Outlander. Love me a sexy Scottish man. My husband's is Tiffani Amber Thiessen. Then and now." – Staci N.
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Jeffrey Dean Morgan
"Just look at him. Also, he has a farm and talks to his donkey, Paxton. And he resembles my husband so that's part of the attraction." – Maryrose M.
Steven Yeun
"Steven Yeun is just that perfect combo of adorable, sexy, funny, and easy going. I loved his character in The Walking Dead, but it was seeing him in interviews that sealed it for me." – Carrie T.
Morris Chestnut
"Morris Chestnut. My goodness that man is one sexy human." – Theresa R.
Alexander Skarsgard
"While I hated him in Big Little Lies, my attraction for him was sealed in True Blood." – Patti L.
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