50 Exciting Things To Add to Your Sexual Bucket List

You may have heard of a life bucket list, but have you ever considered making a sex bucket list? A sex bucket list can include a list of sexy things you want to try.

What’s on your list will certainly depend on your personal preferences and current relationship status, but we’ve put together a long list of sexual must-dos to consider adding to your own sexual bucket list.

Talk with your partner, of course, if you have one, and if you don’t, pick and choose what makes sense for you, but here is a list of 50 sexual adventures to consider trying.

Explore New Areas

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The first category involves branching out with your “usuals” and exploring new forms of attraction and sexual pleasure. Maybe that’s meeting (and making out) with someone new or experimenting with a new type of sex for you. Here are some ideas.

1. Experiment with attraction

2. Try anal

3. Have a threesome (make sure you’re comfortable with each other and set ground rules!)

4. Engage in group sex (again, same rules apply, and they’re even more important with more people)

5. Have phone sex

Focus On New Forms of Pleasure

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The second category is blocking out the noise, so to speak, and focusing on your pleasure. Maybe that’s trying out a new sex toy or adding in a kink that can elevate your sexual satisfaction — or both.

6. Masturbate using a new method

7. Use a vibrator

8. Use a sex toy on someone else

9. Be tied up

10. Tie someone up

Change Up Your Sexual Setting

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Next up? Mix up your sexual setting by trying out a new place to do the deed.

11. Have sex in a new place

12. Engage in (consenting, only, of course) sexy watching of your partner or another couple

13. Get busy in a car

14. Have sex at a drive-in (of course, not where anyone can see you, as public indecency laws could apply here!)

15. Mile-high club

Mix It Up

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Mix up your sex life by bringing in a new partner, or relying on the long-familiar.

16. Have sex with a stranger

17. Have a one-night stand

18. Have good-old-fashioned married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)

19. Try sex on a boat

20. Have sex in a body of water (might want to make sure it’s clean water!)

Let's Get Physical

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Incorporate some playfulness and fun into your sex life with these sex bucket list suggestions:

21. Introduce light spanking

22. Read erotica

23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game

24. Have sex in the shower

25. Have sex standing up against a wall

Take Things Outside

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Sex in a bedroom? That’s boring. Bring on the great outdoors with these bucket list ideas:

26. Sex in a tent in the wilderness

27. Sex with no kissing

28. Sex in the pitch black

29. Sex in the broad daylight

30. Have sex on the beach

Focus On the Sensations

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Continue the sexy-time fun by adding in some visual (and physical) delights:

31. Have sex blindfolded (maybe just one of you, although if you can pull off both, go for it!)

32. Watch porn together

33. Watch porn alone

34. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms, or at least try

35. Making out with no sex long after you’re no longer a virgin

Bring in the Props

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No sex bucket list is complete without adding in some fun sexual props. Here are some ideas to explore new sexual sensations.

36. Use ice sexually

37. Engage in sexual role play

38. Add in (and lick off) whipped cream

39. Incorproate lingerie sex

40. Give a sexual massage

Make Time for What Matters

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Quickies or take your time? Now is the time to try out both!

41. Have a sexy quickie in a skirt

42. Have sex with someone much older

43. Have sex with someone younger (legal should go without saying, but still!)

44. Have sex in a new country

45.  Enjoy a “longie” in the rain

Last But Not Least

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Round out your sexual bucket list with these ideas. How many can you check off the list?

46. Have sex in the ocean

47. Incorporate feather ticklers

48. Ask your partner their fantasy — and then fulfill it

49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone

50. Have silent sex in a full house

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