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Andi Dorfman Dishes on All of Her Raunchy Hookups After 'The Bachelorette'

EntertainmentPublished Jan 9, 2018
By Jenny Erikson
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She has 100 percent embraced the single life, and she's chronicled her journey in a brand-new tell-all book. Andi Dorfman's new page-turner, Single State of Mind, has so many tales of sexy encounters, we're actually blushing a little bit! But it's all just part of the path that's led her to where she is -- happy.

The former Bachelorette's new book was released this week, and from what we can tell, she didn't hold back any salacious details.-placeholder
The former Bachelorette's new book was released this week, and from what we can tell, she didn't hold back any salacious details.
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The former Bachelorette's new book was released this week, and from what we can tell, she didn't hold back any salacious details.

The memoir picks up right where her first book, It's Not OK, left off -- heading to New York City from her native Atlanta. She wrote, "When I decided to move to New York, I did it to look for me, not to look for love. I've embraced the single life and all the glorious independence it has to offer."

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She continued, "I want to be able to go on vacations with my friends and not have to think about a man. I want to be able to come home to an empty apartment and drink a bottle of wine, or not, by myself. And most of all, I don't want to be responsible for anyone else." Amen, sister.

Andi was previously engaged to Josh Murray, whom she picked at her final rose ceremony.-placeholder
Andi was previously engaged to Josh Murray, whom she picked at her final rose ceremony.
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Andi was previously engaged to Josh Murray, whom she picked at her final rose ceremony.

After such a public and bitter breakup, she's kept her dating life to herself. Until now that is. It seems as though she was saving up all her juicy stories for this book. Like the time she flew to Canada to hook up with someone she met on Twitter. 

She said that if a guy is willing to pay the airfare and for an Uber, she's game to meet up no matter the distance. So after flirting and video-chatting with one gent, she decided to give it a whirl. However, she said that he looked different than he had on FaceTime, and that he had "zero warmth."

Andi shared that after a bottle of wine, they ended up naked together, and even though she thought it was the best sex of her life, he was cold and weird. "What the f***k just happened? Did I just get hate-f***ed?" she wondered. She flew back to Manhattan with "no emotional feelings, no regret, and almost no dignity left."

"These douchebags coming into my life are my own fault. Why am I drawn to such losers? I think I have some soul searching to do," she pontificated.

She admitted to having a thing for baseball players.-placeholder
She admitted to having a thing for baseball players.
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She admitted to having a thing for baseball players.

After the Canadian, she fell for a baseball player 3,000 miles away in Seattle. She said he was the only man in her life at the time, until she got set up with a New York Yankee by a friend. She said after dinner dates and drink, it was "just straight-up sexual." Even though apparently it wasn't that great at first. "You've got to give it a couple of tries before giving up," she shared.

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She continued, "Plus, I've learned from firsthand experience that sex isn't everything in a relationship. Hell, look at the Canadian -- best sex of my life and also biggest a**hole in my life." She said he "served his purpose," and "and that's what happens when the only thing you really enjoy about a man is his penis."

As for that Seattle ball player? She said that after six weeks of phone dates, "I had finally found what it feels like to love and be loved." And then he dumped her via text -- ouch.

She seems to have really embraced the single life, and even all the dating it comes with.-placeholder
She seems to have really embraced the single life, and even all the dating it comes with.
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She seems to have really embraced the single life, and even all the dating it comes with.

"I'm genuinely happy being alone," she revealed. That's not to say she's not up for meeting new people and continuing to go with it. She said that right now, she's just looking for a good time, and "if that good time happens to be with a man, then so be it."

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