Toddler Development

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    I was prepared to make a lot of changes and sacrifices when I entered motherhood, but one thing I wasn't about to give up was eating in nice restaurants. I refused to be limited to those establishments with super-sized options on the menu, and since their earliest days, my children have dined alongside us in a plethora of restaurants that have actual table cloths. 

    So I get all sorts of agitated when restaurants talk about banning kids, or people ask to be moved just because they see a sippy cup on the table. My kids are not always perfect, and yes, we've had to leave mid-meal more than once. For the most part, however, they know how to (and are made to/threatened to/bribed to) conduct themselves so that we and everyone else around us can have a nice meal. Some children, however, clearly can NOT, and I'm appalled by some of the things their parents let them do in restaurants, which really ruins it for the rest of us.

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    So your child is a toddler now, and she's driving you crazy. You're thinking maybe it's time to try "time-outs" -- but how does that work, exactly? How long should it last? Should you give a warning? At what age do you start doing time-outs? What happens if it doesn't work?

    All parenting experts say that time-outs should not be used as a punishment. Instead, it's a technique used to teach children how to calm down, reflect, and respect limits. Time-out is a chance for children to pull out of an intense emotional conflict or dangerous behavior.

    So that's the "why." Here's how several parenting experts say we should use time outs.

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    Hands down, this is one of the sweetest, most inspiring videos I've seen in while. In it, 4-year-old Gavin Robert Stevens is captured taking his first step off of a curb. It doesn't sound like much, but considering the fact that he's completely blind, it's a monumental moment.

    According to the post on YouTube, for the past couple of months, Gavin has been getting used to getting around with a cane, and he insisted on doing this himself. As scared as he must have been, he shows incredible bravery. "I can do it! I can do it!" he says in the sweetest little voice.

    His mother is right there rooting him on. "You can do it baby -- go ahead, you're safe." And then he does. Watch it after the jump.

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    One of the funniest things one sees at the park is all the new moms who are so anxious to get out of the house that they are there stuffing 2-month-old babies into the baby swings and pushing them ever so slightly. The reality is, as parents, we are ALWAYS so excited for our kids to get to that next level. We want them to climb high, reach the top, slide fast, and do those monkey bars ASAP.

    The reality is, though, playgrounds aren't all made equally. Ask any mom who has followed her 2-year-old around equipment made for 8-year-olds with clenched fists and you will know. There is a reason many playgrounds have structures for the little ones and different ones for the bigger ones.

    It's not always easy to tell when a child is ready for the bigger equipment, but here are six pieces of equipment, each with signs you can look at in your child to assess his or her readiness. See below:

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    Though the individual days of parenting small children can seem oh so very long, the time we really have with our children as children races by at a mind-numbing speed. One minute we're worrying if they're ever going to take their first steps, and the next they're dancing around, singing along with Taylor Swift about how they're never, ever, ever getting back together with some guy at the top of their 4-year-old lungs, causing their mother to flash-forward to the dating years with panic.

    So when I step back and think about the most important qualities I want to try to help instill in my children during this brief period I have raising them, there's one thing that constantly comes to the top of my list -- self-esteem. If nothing else, that's the one thing I think will help them most in life -- that ability to believe in themselves, to have the confidence to embrace who they are, and the strength to explore the world with passion.

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    One minute you're holding your newborn baby, next thing you know, your little one is already 3 years old! Time to sign up for preschool. Time for dress-up, play dough, sandboxes, snack time, and singing in circle time. Yay!

    But wait -- maybe you think your toddler is ready for preschool. But is he, really? Is the preschool ready for her? Better think this through a bit, first. Here are some signs your toddler might not be so ready for preschool after all.

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    "Mom, where do babies come from?" That's the universal question that makes most parents cringe. We may practice, plan, and believe we're prepared, but I don't think there are many parents alive who don't at least shudder  a little when their child finally pops the question. 

    I have every intention of being open and honest with my children about sex, but ... just not yet. Especially when it comes to my 4-year-old daughter. So when she's gotten close to the subject, let's say my answers haven't gotten close to the real deal. However, they haven't been quite as inventive as the one the dad in this Kia Super Bowl commercial gives in which he introduces his son to ... Babylandia.

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    If it takes a village to raise a child, it takes a whole army to raise a special needs child. As any parent of a special needs child will tell you, there's just no way you can do it all on your own. You need a complex web of support. In fact, that web can be so complex, one mom of a special needs child actually sat down and diagrammed it all out for her family.

    Cristin Lind posted "Gabe's Care Map" on her blog, Durga's Toolbox. And it's mind-boggling. Her son, Gabe, has a rare genetic disorder called Coffin-Lowry syndrome. And as you can see just from a glance at his care map, making sure Gabe gets the care he needs is one monumentally chaotic task.

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    So... a grampa took a bubble bath with his four-year-old granddaughter. And her mother took a photo. And the photo was posted via Instagram. And oh by the way, the grampa happens to be a senior pastor at a mega-church in Chicago. And now everyone is freaking out over the photo.

    Bishop Larry Trotter says his family was visiting him. He was taking a bubble bath when his four-year-old granddaughter asked if she could join him. Why not? Trotter claims he and the granddaughter were both wearing swimming trunks and that the girl's mother was present through the five minutes the girl was in the tub. But the photo has brought a furious storm of criticism to Trotter and his family. And I can see why!

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    A toddler's first steps mark an exciting occasion for every family. But when you've been told that your child will never walk? Those first steps are gold. Hannah Dewhurst's parents were told she would never walk. The 3-year-old girl has Cornelia de Lange Syndrome, and for her that means not being able to feed herself or talk. She also has a cleft palate and is the size of an 18-month-old. As a baby she almost died.

    But somehow, Hannah defied doctors' predictions and took her first steps. Her mother, Anna Dewhurst, describes what it's like to witness this wonderful surprise. "She will take just little steps. It was absolutely amazing to see her walking. It makes me very emotional as we didn’t know if she would ever walk."

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