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What Special Needs Moms Do All Day

Posted by Adriana Velez
on Feb 15, 2012 at 5:06 PM

special needs momSo tell us, special needs moms, what do you do all day? Well, I guess it depends on who you ask! Have you seen this handy-dandy chart?

This is the work of The Domestic Goddess, mom to an autistic child, and it totally nails the job from all perspectives, doesn't it? What the job is to moms -- and what it looks like to everyone else! Keep reading to see a larger version of the chart.

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Inspiring

Sarah Palin Has a Special Bond With Families of Special Needs Kids

Posted by Adriana Velez
on Feb 8, 2012 at 12:50 PM

sarah palinSarah Palin got me today. This week she published the sweetest tribute to her son, Trig. As most of us know, Trig has Down Syndrome. He's a strapping 4-year-old now, and Sarah just couldn't be prouder.

Sarah reveals the secret every parent of a special-needs child knows: That the true joy of parenting doesn't come from watching your child "achieve" their milestones. Instead, it comes from countless daily acts of nurturing, of watching your child become their best versions of themselves, and watching your child bring out the best in others.

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Mom Moment

Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg Wants to See Boys Do More Housework

Posted by Adriana Velez
on Feb 3, 2012 at 12:19 PM

jasper & babyA lot of moms are looking at Sheryl Sandberg right now -- she's the COO of Facebook who stands to make a boatload of dough after Facebook completes its IPO. Even without that IPO, her career is one loud feminist roar: Executive positions at two tech giants, Chief of Staff at the U.S. Department of Treasury. How did she do it, and what does this say about the way we raise our kids?

A writer for Forbes picked up on this quote from a talk Sheryl gave: "We need our boys to be as ambitious to contribute in the home and we need our girls to be as ambitious to achieve in the workforce." In other words, equality at home supports equality in the workforce. So what about teaching your son to contribute in the home? What does that look like?

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Stats

Nicer Moms Have Smarter Kids

Posted by Michele Zipp
on Feb 2, 2012 at 9:15 AM

mom hugging sonMy daughter has this adorable thing she does where she stops what she is doing, gives me a huge hug, and says 'I love you' with her sweet 2-year-old voice. I melt like ice cream, and she smiles when I tell her I love her too, eating it all up like the little ham and cheese she is. I could do this hugging all day, I think. But could there be a downside to too much of that? Will that make my kids grow up to be arrogant? These are things I worry about, along with the big things, the small things. But taking away from my worry is this new study that says our love for our kids, and the affection we show them, helps build up the part of the brain that deals with stress, learning, and memory.

Excuse me while I go hug on my kids for a moment.

We all want smart kids who aren't stressed out, right? So here's what we have to do ...

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Stats

Carpooling Isn't an Excuse to Abandon Booster Seats

Posted by Julie Ryan Evans
on Jan 30, 2012 at 8:58 PM

booster seatWith all the information out there about the importance of booster seats and their power to save the lives of children, some parents shockingly still don't use them. Especially parents who carpool it seems.

A new study from the University of Michigan found that  while most use them when they're driving their own kids, 30 percent of parents don't require their kids ages 4-8 to be in a booster seat when they ride with someone else. Not only that, they found that 45 percent of parents don't make their own kids get in booster seats when they have other children in their own car without booster seats. 

Are you kidding me? Who are these people?

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This Just In

Latest News on Vaccines Will Make You Nervous

Posted by Julie Ryan Evans
on Jan 26, 2012 at 1:27 PM

microwave popcornVaccines are an issue that incite plenty of debate and make me nervous as hell. I want to believe all the reassurances and studies that they're safe, but all of the contrary studies and information have led me to struggle and stress over every one my children have received. New information about microwave popcorn's power over vaccines makes me even more nervous.

What's microwave popcorn got to do with the whole debate? Well, a lot apparently, and it's terrifying.

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5 Toddler Tantrums That Make Moms Want to Scream

Posted by Julie Ryan Evans
on Jan 19, 2012 at 2:01 PM

tantrumSharie Manon, star of Glam Fairy, recently had a really bad mommy moment. TMZ caught up with her on the street and started asking her about celebrities whose hair she'd like to do. She got out Justin Bieber ... then the whining started.

Her toddler daughter, Emerson, was with her, and she clearly wasn't up for the interview. The reporter kept going despite her protests, but things don't end pretty. It was tantrum city. Watch for yourself:

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Breastfeeding-Addicted Toddler Needs Tough Love

Posted by Adriana Velez
on Jan 13, 2012 at 2:31 PM

weaning
You're cut off, little dude!
The day comes for every nursing mom: The day her baby stops breastfeeding. When I first started nursing my son, I made one of those fateful pledges that's up there with promising your first-born child to Rumpelstiltskin. I pledged to keep nursing until my son self-weaned. Baby-led weaning is an extension of on-demand nursing -- and it's an extension all right. That magical day could come at any time -- at 9 months or at ... oh Lord, what if it never comes at all?!?

This was the question I faced as we reached my son's 3rd birthday. He showed no signs WHATSOEVER of losing interest in "nursie." If anything, he was as enthusiastic as ever.  

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Cute Twins Chatter Nonstop -- In Sign Language (VIDEO)

Posted by Adriana Velez
on Jan 13, 2012 at 9:03 AM

signing twinsOnce toddlers get the hang of talking, they certainly like to chat up a storm and these two little guys are no different. But because one of them is deaf and the other is a little hard of hearing, they communicate with each other -- and their parents -- through sign language (ASL).

Their parents (dad is deaf too) say the boys had no language skills when they adopted the boys just six months ago -- and now look at them go.

You can't shut these two up!

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Latest News on Toddler Naps Makes Me Do a Happy Dance

Posted by Julie Ryan Evans
on Jan 5, 2012 at 12:52 PM

napMy daughter turns 3 in a few weeks, and she's fighting her nap as of late. There are days when she spends a couple of hours in her crib singing and talking with no sleeping, while other days she's out like a light. This was how it started with my son when he gave up his nap, but he was at least 4 then.

Her giving up her nap at this point simply can't happen. She needs her nap. I need her nap. I intend for her to nap for at least another year, and I'm determined to make it happen. She's always been a fabulous sleeper, and I've been able to bank on at least two or two and a half hours of peace a day just when I need it most.

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