It's time for a Mom Confession -- because, let's face it, we're real mothers and sometimes it doesn't work the way the parenting books say it should.
This Week's Confession:
I have a 2 year old that is going around saying "oh sh*t." I am not one to use foul language of any sort, but his dad does. He's some how managed to stop using the F-word on his own (it only lasted a day and a half). We have treated the S-word the same, hoping it would go away on its own. It's been about two weeks now...
We have put him in time out for it. We have let him taste just a drop of soap. We have tried teaching him an alternative—such as "Oh Crap". We even ignore it. We never made a big fuss over it until it started every day for the last week and a half. We don't mind him saying it because he don't know what it means, but it's becoming an embarrassment for us when we go out in public or have family and friends over. Have you gone through this or have any helpful advice?
We all have secrets -- so thanks to JuneWestling for sharing her honest thoughts, and thank you for keeping this conversation non-judgmental!
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Comments (11)
My baby says AMEN when we say a blessing .
my son went through the same phase when he was about 18 months old. we used everything you used and just ignoring it worked in the end. now we watch what we say around him and we havent had a problem since.
My 2 year-old was saying "stupid-a**" for a while (about a week) and I told him it was a potty word and those words belong in the toilet. I explained that smart people can think of other words to say b/c they have larger vocabularies and now that's what he tells people when he hears potty words.
My son would say God D****, and use it in the right context.......LOL. We just told him that we don't use those words and laughed it off. Really, does he know what he is saying, no. So just try to prevent it
My 4 year old once came home saying that her father (we're divorced) and her uncle had had an argument and, "Daddy's a jerk"
my 3 year old is going through this right now, and we have tried every thing you have but still nothing is working. I don't know what to do any more. Good Luck with you Little one.
Unable to stop my kid? Uh, no. I simply explained those were words that were mean and could hurt peoples' feelings and would get him in trouble in school or Daddy in trouble at work. If he slips up, we remind him and he loves the rare time he gets to catch us (or someone else) saying a cuss word.
We actaully encourage him to swear at home IF APPROPRIATE. These are good words for big feelings and I'd rather he swear than screech incoherently or hit/bite/kick. We explained the times we should use these words and gently ask him if "Now is a good time" when he randomly curses. So far this seems to be working.
my son did something similar and we immediately told him firmly no no and told him "You say _____." alternative phrase or word. This teaches that the bad word is a no no and that even though other people use it its not ok for him to.