Sydney is using the potty more every day!
One of our CafeMoms, mommacan, has been trying the 3 Day Potty Training method with her 21 month old daughter, Sydney. Here's an update on how it's been going:
Day One:
It was pretty much what I expected it to be. Sydney went from wearing diapers for 21 months to wearing big girl panties overnight. I got her up dressed her in big girl underwear and a T-shirt and we started the day. Well, her dry underwear lasted about 10 seconds -- in fact, we went through 3 pairs in less than an hour.
The day got better, though. She had periodic accidents with her finishing in the potty about half of the time. The hardest part was being with her, following her around every second. If I took an eye off her, that is when she had an accident. I mean, I love my child A LOT but all that togetherness can be a challenge!
Day Two:
She started off a lot better. She started to discover how to hold it rather than having small accidents, and she would go all at once. She started to say when she had to potty and actually did potty 70% of the time. We only went through half of the underwear we did on Day Two as we did on Day One.
Also, on Day Two she started to gravitate more to my husband. She wanted him to take her to the potty, him to ask her if she had to go, and him to follow her around. It was a little bit heartbreaking, but also exciting. I mean, I wanted to be the super mom that trained my daughter, but really I am just the support staff and my husband is the coach. It has been a good bonding experience for them both.
Day Three:
It was even better. Every time she told us she had to go potty we took her (very fast) and she went. She said "potty" when she was pooping and finished in the potty. She had only had one accident that day (as I wrote this) and she said "potty" once, but then something shiny distracted her and she had an accident. But to go from no potty experience at all to only using the potty ... she is doing outstanding in my opinion.
I also asked mommacan,
How many pairs of underwear did you go through?
20 the first day, 10 the second day, and about three the third day.
Have you had any relapses, any urge to pull out a diaper?
None -- but I did think about it at nap time. She was so amped up she wouldn't sleep.
How is nightime training going?
I will admit that I am not so insistent about night training right now. She has so much going on in her head that she needs to sleep and process it. Plus she has a hard time getting back in bed at night. So we really are not night training. I stopped her liquids and hoped for the best. I did put a pull-up on her at night both nights so far ... she woke up wet both days. I guess we will worry about night wetting later and I am okay with that.
What is your feeling about this method so far?
It's just amazing how she started to grasp the concept of the potty in just a couple of days. Every morning she gets it a little more. It will be exciting to see how she is on day 4, 5, 6, etc. But I am not a fool. I know she will have accidents and I know on special occasions I may even consider putting her in pull-ups.
Whatever happens these three days have been very interesting and quite challenging! Now the hard part begins ... maintaining and improving on her success. We'd planned to leave the house today for a short time today, so we will see what happens. :)
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Comments (57)
Nah. I advocate waiting until your child is ready and willing, and I think the name "3 Day Potty Training" is misleading. Even the mom quoted in your post does NOT have a potty-trained child after three days. Potty-trained means her daughter goes to the bathroom by herself, without urging from mom and dad, and rarely has accidents (as in, once a month maybe - other than nights, which is a different story).
This method does seem much better than just trying pull-ups, which seems to be so long and drawn out. Also, my toddler is willing (and asks) to go potty, so I think this method may help her better understand how to recognize when she needs to potty. I think I may try this...
Please keep us posted on how your child's progress--best of luck!!!
I don't understand waiting until a child is 3 or 4 that is nasty. I voted yes but I'm just planning on using underwear just like the article above. DD is 14 months and we will PT soon. I did pull ups with one of my nephews and it took FOREVER, the one that did underwear seroiusly took a week, they were both 2.
Congratulations! Your experience is very similar to mine. My son was out of diapers 100% at 19 months, 3 weeks. The "3-day method" actually took about one week, but I wasn't complaining. My son was initiating using the potty and did not have very many accidents. I can recall most of his accidents four months later! One of my friends has a four-year-old son and he has many more accidents than my son and was taught around 3 1/2.
To those opposed to early training: I've said it before, and I'll repeat myself .... Helping a child learn to use a toilet under the age of two gives them dignity and fosters self-esteem and self-respect. An older child will be "ready" when they start feeling embarrasment and humiliation at sitting in their own waste or being teased by children on the playground. Boy, have I seen that. I've been a nanny for many years and seen children shunned by their peers because they smell and are "babies" because they have diapers. Preschoolers are cruel. Why set your child up for that? There is also the fear factor to consider. Normal toddlers develop many fears as their brains develop. At 18 months, my son would run to the front window to watch the garbage truck, UPS truck, street cleaner, and loved hearing police sirens. Now, he runs to me and hides his head and I have to reassure him that he's safe. I've read over and over again about the fear and holding their #2 for days until they are in pain and need medical intervention, the stubbornness, the hiding in corners, etc. I taught my toddler the power and pride of using a potty before his development reached the stage of fear, stubbornness,and embarrasment.
Do you put a diaper on them at night? My dd wakes up with a wet diaper so I would be afraid to not put a diaper on her.
I don't understand waiting until a child is 3 or 4 that is nasty. mlregalado
It's not nasty. The average potty training age for girls is 18 months to 3 years. For boys, it's 2-1/2 to 4 years. A lot of people choose to wait until their child is ready, which makes for very quick potty training with no fights and no power struggle.
Please don't be so judgemental. Waiting until 3 or 4 is perfectly acceptable and common.
I potty trained my son in Booty Camp on that show The Doctors. Please don't put her in a pull-up for special occasions. Use underwear and plastic pants, it foster confidence and trust between you.
I have tried this and it did not work for us at all. So we are having to try other methods. And when I find one that works, I will let ya all know.
I used this method with my son when he was 23 months old and it was a great option for us. At home he was pee trained by the end of that 3 days. He had a few accidents the first few days at daycare afterwards but not very many. He was poop trained within 7 days and I waited about a month after doing daytime training to do nighttime training. It's been a little over a year since I did the 3 day process and it's almost a year since he's been fully trained.
This method is exactly what I recommend to every mom that asks. If you commit 110% to this method, you will see HUGE improvements within the 3 days (if the child isn't basically pee trained by then) more than likely. It's a HUGE commitment to put your focus completely and totally on the child and their potty training for 3 days and a lot of people just aren't mentally ready so they don't fully commit like they should for this method to work.
My experience is documented in my journals if anyone is interested.