Flight Attendant Threatens to Kick Parents Off Plane for Trying to Keep Baby Safe​​​

baby airplaneAnother day, another story about an airline treating parents unreasonably. American Airlines is currently under fire for advising parents against putting their baby in a safety seat, as it would delay take-off, resulting in a late departure fine from the FAA. A flight attendant on an American Eagle flight headed from New York City to Columbus, OH noticed that the approved safety seat a 14-month-old was sitting in was not buckled properly when they were doing their final check after two grueling hours of sitting on the tarmac. Despite the FAA vouching that "the safest place for your child on an airplane is in a government-approved safety restraint system (CRS) or device, not on your lap," the flight attendant told the parents to simply hold their child instead of fixing the problem, as it would take to long. When Dad protested, he was given the choice of being thrown off the plane, or holding his son during takeoff and landing. Lovely.

Obnoxious airline debacle aside, let's talk about flying with little ones for a moment here: It's basically the opposite of a walk in the park. But there are some things that we can and should keep in mind when flying with young kids. For one, a safety seats. They're important.

This family was right in bringing aboard a safety seat for their child to fly in (and, yes, the airline was wrong for putting a fine over the child's safety). The FAA continually recommends parents travel with an CRS, as "it's the smart and right thing to do so that everyone in your family arrives safely at your destination." And if you do fly with an CRS, please make sure it has been approved by the FAA. It should say, "This restraint is certified for use in motor vehicles and aircraft" printed on it. Otherwise, you may be asked to check it as baggage, which defeats the whole purpose. Another smart thing to do before take-off might be to ask one of the flight attendants if your kiddo's seat is properly attached, fastened, buckled, and harnessed. As we all know, there's always puh-lenty of time before taking off to make sure it's installed correctly.

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All this said, the airline is completely at fault here for not taking the time to fix what they saw was wrong with the CRS before take-off, full-well knowing the parents paid for the airline seat, the safety seat, and that it's the safest place for a child to be. Sure, the best thing for this family to do would have been to check with a flight attendant (or vice-versa) before take-off, but when you're traveling with a 14-month-old and you're delayed two hours on the tarmac, it's a lot of shoulda, coulda, woulda. Not cool, American Airlines. Not cool at all.

Do you travel with a safety seat?


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Hello07 Hello07

The flight attendants had two hours to make sure it was buckled right.

They just didn't want a fine because then they would have to explain why they didn't do their job

IKnow... IKnow0101

So in that entire two hours the flight attendants didn't check the car seat? Oh ok.

Movie... Moviebuff

Maybe the parents should have ask if it was buckled right. It's not always the airlines fault parents need to be parents.

nonmember avatar Gina

I didn't know American Eagle was also an airline...

nonmember avatar Sunnie

It's obvious to me the flight attendent was holding the parent's fully responsible for both child and CSR which is very sad for a professional. That AA attendant should be shame.

Fondue Fondue

Umm, Sunnie, what's so "sad" about a parent being held responsible for their child and their CSR? More parents need to be responsible, and take responsibility for, their children.

Einyn Einyn

Uhh it's not the airlines responsibility to make sure your kid is buckled in. The parents had two hours to ask if it was buckled in correctly.

sterl... sterling21

I have traveled several times alone with a carseat and toddler on an airline. It is not alot of fun, and you do have to buy a seat.But there is only the lap belt and that does NOT protect a toddler during take off and touch down. So if they paid for the seat, the child had every right to be in the seat that was paid for and suited to his needs. And again there is only the lapbelt, how would it have been buckled wrong? You put the lapbelt through the opening in the back, the end. Ready for take off.

youth... youthfulsoul

You know they make those harnesses made out of seatbelt type material for flying, why aren't airlines offering those for use rather than making parents carry and obviously wrongly buckle, bulky seats????

nonmember avatar J

My husband said that the fine for staying on the Tarmac for over 3 hours is 27,000 dollars per passenger. Also, think it's your job as a parent to make sure you are using your car seat correctly

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