Dad Who Threw Toddler From Building Aspired to Be the 'Best' Dad

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When we heard the horrific news that a man threw his toddler son from a 52-story building last night and then jumped to his own death, I'm sure we all imagined the perpetrator of this insane act to be an absolute monster. But, according to the latest reports, Dmitriy Kanarikov was a Ukrainian immigrant and hard worker with a good job who wrote on his Facebook page: "I want to be the best dad and husband -- nothing is more important to me right now." He had a beautiful wife named Svetlana Bukharina, who also used Facebook as a platform on which she announced to the world in March that she had the "best husband and son in the world."  

What happened? And how did an innocent 3-year-old go from having a potentially happy family life to having his life ended by the father who claimed to love him? 

Dmitriy and Svetlana's relationship reportedly went bust in recent months and things got so bad as the two fought over custody issues that they had to meet at a police station each time they dropped off or picked up their son Kirill. The morning of the incident, dad had picked up Kirill at the station and was instructed to drop him off at the same spot later that day. Instead, he took him to a luxury high-rise building in Manhattan, and it's still unclear why he chose this location. 

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Dad allegedly brought his son up to the roof of the building and threw him off first. He then followed by leaping to his own death. Dmitriy died immediately, but in a heartbreaking twist, the toddler died at a nearby hospital -- while wearing his Christmas pajamas. 

If you click through the couple's Facebook photos, you'll only see images of happiness and love. Dmitriy and Svetlana recorded beautiful days spent at the beach together as a family and their son -- smiling in each photo and appearing well taken care of -- seems the picture of perfect health. But this isn't the first time we've heard about horrific situations arising from bitter custody battles.

It seems like the stress of custody fights and the jealousy and pain that arise as a result are too much for some parents to handle. We'll NEVER understand how they can get to a place where it becomes more important to hurt their former partner than it does to protect their child -- but we have to admit this is happening and that it is a very real problem.

Our hearts go out to the mother who must get through this holiday season without her little boy. There are no words to express how sad and painful this must be for her.

If you or someone you know is considering suicide, please call a suicide prevention hotline. There are always people who want to talk to you and help you. You can reach help at: 1-800-273-TALK.

What do you think would push this dad to kill his toddler son? 

 

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Tyson Fricker

Your typical macho male who decided if he couldn't have what he wanted then nobody could so he murdered his son. And The Duck thinks gays are bad. We straight men can be pretty disgusting.

youth... youthfulsoul

So heartbreaking for the son. Could care less about the "dad".

nonmember avatar Erica

My prayers are with the mother I couldnt imagine living wo my children. R.I.P. Sweet Angel...

belie... believeitornot

Crying again. I really need to stop reading about this. I can't fathom how anyone could hurt their child, especially like this. It just does not compute, what a monster.

Jence... Jenceleste

Wow, just kill yourself.. Why take the child's life?? What a horrible way to die :(

Megan Griffin

I seriously wonder if he was on some kind of medications like anti depressants that cause suicidal behavior.

Porti... PortiaRose

Why would he do THAT?? In that way.….?

runfar66 runfar66

This is really so horrific!  I truly do not understand it.  I wish he would have just killed himself and left that precious baby with his mother.

RoseFan1 RoseFan1

Im sorry, but SERIOUSLY, if custody issues got THAT bad, why did the cops/cps not step in and say SUPERVISED VISITS ONLY?! so ridiculous. this could have been prevented on TWO fronts! and the father can rot in hell for all I care, such a SELFISH COWARD! :/ such a horrible story, my heart breaks for this mother...prayers for her and families in this time


 

Lvonl... Lvonlucky

Can understand. There are cunts who push men to desperate things. When a relationship fails the children are all that matter.

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