Farrah Abraham Thinks Her 4-Year-Old Needs to Get a Life

farrah abrahamTeen Mom/porn star/pillar of the parenting community Farrah Abraham thinks her 4-year-old daughter Sophia needs "me" time. And not "me" time as in she needs to learn how to entertain herself when she's alone; "me" time as in sometimes the tot ought to just go out with a couple of her gal pals; have a leisurely juice-filled dinner; and maybe wake up in a ball pit somewhere with little recollection of what transpired the night before.

Okay, so that's not exactly how Farrah put it, but she did actually say: "It's healthy that we have a break. Sophia has her own life and is doing her own thing, and I'm doing mine."

What, Moms? Your toddler doesn't have their own life?

We all know that Farrah Abraham's parenting is something that no one should try at home, but this is one of the most asinine things I've ever heard. In fact, I actually LOL'd when I first read it. Who says this about their 4-year-old? It's something you say about your partner or your best friend. Not your toddler.

I'm all for letting children play alone once in a while. It isn't a parent's job to dance around like a monkey for their kids 24/7. In fact, I think it's good that children learn how to deal with boredom. But, when you're a parent of a toddler, you don't "do your thing" and your child "does theirs." I actually think some may refer to that philosophy as neglect. A 4-year-old needs their mother. Especially when they don't have a father.

She seems like a happy little girl, but sometimes my heart aches for little Sophia. Farrah is rarely seen with her, and her actions over the past year or so have set a pretty terrible example. And then she does and says something like this. Hopefully, Sophia won't get wind of it. Because having to have your own life at 4 is a lot of pressure.

What do you think of Farrah's comments?


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sweet... sweetaspie630

Farrah should have chose adoption and Catlynn and Tyler would have made great parents. Funny how that turned out.

Jaghd810 Jaghd810

I think you misinterpreted. 

Emmie25 Emmie25

Someone Lease Take That Child Away From Her!

Jessica Sheets

Their is no doubt in my mind that poor little Sophia will be taken away from her mother because of Farrah's actions. She's irresponsible, a terrible mother, and what the hell does she think she's doing telling her daughter something like that? SHE's FOUR come on.

nonmember avatar Jocelyn

I think you read too much into what she was saying. She did word it strangely.

Jai Hutto

"Sophia has her own life and is doing her own thing, and I'm doing mine."

TRANSLATION: I found someone else to push my child on so that I can go do porn, get bigger tits and be stupid.

nonmember avatar Nina

Would someone please take that poor child away from this moronic slut and give her to people who will actually care about her? This woman is disgusting!

lolly... lollypopgirl725

Oh wow little Sophia needs her mother. Farrah needs to grow the fuck up an stop being a damn whore and Quit whoring around. Honestly some one needs to get Sophia and take her away even though it would hurt her not having a mother but its better than the little girl sitting at a strangers house and asking "wheres mommy".

nonmember avatar <3 MyLove<3

i agree 100% what is going through her mind to tell her own child that... i have two kids of my own and would NEVER tell either of children that my daughters 6 and my son is 1 1/2... kids are a blessing not mistakes... what happened to her being the great mom and learning from her and her moms relationship.. i watched every single teen mom there was out with all the girls... i was a teen mom and never ever in my life would i ever do anything to my kids let alone tell them that shit... why have a child if your just going to get tired of them you shouldn't if that's the case.... i love my kids to death and would do anything for them....

nonmember avatar shai

ok for one too all you people saying to take her kid from her your stupid, I am sure her mother takes great care of Sophia and we have ALL SEEN in past shows, and the fact that she said her 4 yr old needs to get a life, I am sure she doesn't mean that her daughter needs to be alone and rome around by herself, I myself have a 4 yr old that I don't hover over 24/7, it is called independence and self occupancy.

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