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Dad Pummels Man Who Tries to Snatch 2-Year-Old From Library

by Julie Ryan Evans on August 2, 2012 at 10:49 AM

holding handsI don't know what I would do if I saw someone trying to abduct my child. I hope I never have to find out, but I certainly hope it would be something along the lines of what South Carolina dad Roger Lee Whitlock did.

There he was at the library with his son Lee Lee, his fiance, and her father. While the father filled out job applications online, Roger took Lee Lee outside to have a little snack. The boy was on the other side of a pillar from him, but not more than a foot away, he told The Independent Mail. It's a good thing he was that close, because what happened next is every parent's nightmare.

He told the paper:

I heard a voice say to Lee Lee: "Hey, do you want to go home with me?" But I didn’t think anything about it at first, because he’s so cute and people say that to him when they are teasing him. But then, I saw a man reach out and grab Lee Lee’s arm.

That's where I would hope I wouldn't be too stunned to move, or standing there in disbelief that this could really be happening. Whitlock certainly didn't. Instead, he pummeled the guy.

I whirled around and punched the man, and he ran off. I hit him pretty hard and he was oozing blood.

It's too bad he got away, but hopefully the beating will teach him a thing or two and police will track him down. It's so terrifying to me that people like are out there, and it makes me hyper alert in public when I know things like this can happen in a swift second, even when you're right there. I don't want to be paranoid, and I know these creeps are few and far between, but they ARE out there. Knowing that makes me want to hold their hands as much as they'll let me ... and perhaps brush up on some boxing moves too.

Do you feel like you need to hold on to your children when you're in public?

 

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Filed Under: a mom's life, in the news, toddler health

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  • UgtaB...
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    UgtaBkdnMe

    August 2, 2012 at 11:16 AM

    I'm very paranoid.


  • Christie
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    Christie

    August 2, 2012 at 11:27 AM
    Good thing he was right there. Glad the a*hole didn't stick around and press charges for assault and deny the attempted abduction....hopefully this will scare him off but based on past cases I'm sure he will re-offend like they all do....Nasty pedophiles, they should be locked up for life. I would rather live in a world where the druggies are everywhere than one where the pedos are everywhere
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    wjbrady2011

    August 2, 2012 at 11:30 AM
    I dont keep My eyes off My son. It only takes a few seconds of not paying attention for someone to grab your child.
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    ghostbaby

    August 2, 2012 at 11:30 AM
    I'm glad he socked his ass! Only sick people try to abduct children.
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    amberdotsmom

    August 2, 2012 at 12:04 PM
    Yesterday at a fast food place there was a little girl about 6 standing next to me. Nobody else in line or nearby. I asked her if she wanted to tell the clerk something and she said no she was waiting for her Mom and they were going to have ice cream. I ordered, they got my drink, a few minutes passed, she's still there. So the clerk asks if he could help her and she says again no she's waiting for her Mom. I get my food, they made a mistake, they re-fix it and I go to leave.........She's STILL there. The whole time not a parent that I could see anyplace near. The play area's not too far away and Mom could have been in there and could see her through the glass wall but that would never have been close enough to stop someone from snatching her.
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    GlowWorm889

    August 2, 2012 at 12:48 PM

    Where is the link from the original article? I'd like to get more background on this story. It seems very odd to me that a stranger would try to abduct a toddler in such a public place in broad daylight with a parent less than a foot away. If Dad was close enough to punch the guy, he was close enough so the kidnapper knew that the child belonged to him. One, stranger abductions of any child are rare and usually, a child is lured away or snatched when there are no other adults around. This doesn't shout "pedophile" to me. It sounds like either the kidnapper has some sort of mental illness or there was a gross misunderstanding and he left before explaining himself. I'm not saying the guy didn't deserve the punch, since touching other people's children is a big no-no unless they're about to hurt themselves. I'm  just saying it feels like there is more to this story than the fear-mongering Stir is letting on.


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    MaximumAsh

    August 2, 2012 at 1:52 PM
    Glowworm889 - it isn't that unusual for someone to try that at a library. There was another instance in a library where someone attempted an abduction.
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    Foleygirl24

    August 2, 2012 at 2:12 PM

    Glowworm889- Plus, if the guy was standing on the other side of a pillar like the article said, then the creep may not have seen him there.


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    Savannah Numinen

    August 2, 2012 at 2:22 PM

    OMG! I've had people do this to my oldest!! I was in the grocery store with my boys, I was holding my sons hand and this lady walks up to him asks him he wants to go home with her and then grabs his other hand and starts tugging on him...I lost it!! I told her to get her hands off my son and that she had no right to touch him or talk to him! I don't know what she would've done if I hadn't been right there holding his hand! People are crazy...I'm so thankful this man was able to protect his son.


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    AliciasMommy

    August 2, 2012 at 2:24 PM
    Id have jumped on him and gave him a what for held him down n called the cops least dad got a good whack in good for him bet this guy thinks twice
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