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Long Hair Isn't Just for Little Girls Anymore

by Ericka Sóuter on July 25, 2012 at 5:31 PM

ashlee and bronxAshlee Simpson's 3-year-old son Bronx has the most adorably long locks. Though, I have no doubt the mom is getting flack for letting her little boy's hair get so long.

My son has super curly hair too. It fell in the cutest ringlets at his shoulders and not everyone was a fan. Some friends, family members, and even friends of family members would say, "Oh you should cut his hair," "He looks like a girl," or ask in a judgemental tone, "When are you going to cut that child's hair?" In their mind, long hair was FOR GIRLS ONLY.

PLEASE! This isn't the 1950s. Yet there are message boards dedicated to debating this issue. I just don't understand why it is anyone's business but that mom's. Besides, why can't boys sport long locks. Those that do aren't any less social, playful, or smart. It has nothing to do with behavior or intelligence. 

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I will admit, I eventually relented and chopped off his hair after he turned 2, but it wasn't because of those old-fashioned nags. The longer it got, the more difficult those coarse curls were to manage. And I did want to see what his little face looked like without the wild mane. But I hope Ashlee doesn't snip her kid's ultra cool coif. Just like with adults, it can definitely add to a kid's personality and presence.

Do you think Ashlee should cut her son's hair?


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Filed Under: celeb kids, celeb moms, grooming

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  • Guest
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    July 25, 2012 at 5:34 PM
    Yes.
  • yayhe...
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    yayheadstart

    July 25, 2012 at 5:40 PM

    My 8 year old son has very long hair and I think it is adorable. However he does get mistaken for a girl a lot. Probably cause he looks just like his sister who is only a year younger than him so they just look like twins. I keep asking him if it bothers him to get called a girl but he insists he doesn't care and does not want to cut his hair. His hair, his choice. Btw I think it might have something to do with the fact that all the girls in his class love to touch his long blond hair. Lol


  • DritaF
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    DritaF

    July 25, 2012 at 5:46 PM
    The males in this family wear their hair hair high and tight. We're not fans of long hair on anyone but the fairer sex.
  • mumma...
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    mummajenni

    July 25, 2012 at 5:48 PM
    We've gone through this with my son. People are nosey assholes. When he had long hair, they said we should cut it, that he looked like a girl. When we buzzed it for summer, they said we shouldn't have, that it was mean to cut off his hair. WTF. Butt out.
  • MomLi...
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    MomLily67

    July 25, 2012 at 5:54 PM

    It's a parents choice up to a point and then the childs'.  What about people inquiring why your daughter's hair is not long??  My son let his grow at around 14 and the rule was that if he kept it clean and brushed he could grow it as long as he wanted, he got tired after a few months.


  • fave82
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    fave82

    July 25, 2012 at 5:57 PM
    Not a fan.
  • JAFE
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    JAFE

    July 25, 2012 at 5:58 PM

    She should only cut it if HE wants it cut or she does. It's not up to me or you. If it were my son, I'd cut it. Just because it's cooler in the summer and when my boys were little and got "little boy" haircuts they looked so cute. But, to each their own. 


  • RobbyLou
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    RobbyLou

    July 25, 2012 at 6:21 PM

    My DH's auburn curls reach his waist. If we were to have a son, I would leave his hair long until he had an opinion on it.


  • guest
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    guest

    July 25, 2012 at 6:30 PM
    My auntie was just telling me the other day that I should cut my 20 month old son's hair. But he has these cute little ringlets, and bangs in front that don't get in his eyes. I do trim his bangs.
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    the4mutts

    July 25, 2012 at 6:33 PM
    Who cares? Damn. Stay out of peoples lives.
    And thats not directed at anyone in particular.
    Its just so sickening when people bitch so much about what others are doing. If you don't like it, don't look, and don't do it yourself.
    Sincerely- a proud mom of 4 kids.
    2 boys, 1 with short hair, 1 with long.
    2 girls, 1 with short hair, 1 with long.
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