I recently came across a Jezebel.com blog of a woman proud to be a pot-smoking mom. She made sure her husband could watch the baby while she got blitzed on the balcony. Then it was back to playtime, which, to her, was a hell of a lot cooler to do when baked. She wrote:
I realized that she's like the funniest fucking person I've ever met. Anybody who thinks that weed makes parents ignore their children has clearly never been high around one.
I got all judgy at first. What kind of mom so brazenly flaunts a weed habit? She asks the hubby to pull diaper duty NOT because she needed to run an errand or take a much needed, and I'm sure deserved, break. Nope. This anti-Donna Reed wanted a time-out to toke up. WHAT??? This takes co-parenting to a whole new level, don't you think?
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But as crazy as it is, that was actually the responsible thing to do. I mean, she could have just lit up in front of her kid. Plenty of parents do -- and not just the ones who use medical marijuana. There are even message boards debating whether it's okay to get high with the little ones watching.
It is illegal, of course, but marijuana is one of those drugs that a lot of people don't consider to be so wrong. I keep thinking about Chris Tucker's pot-obsessed character Smokey in Friday rationalizing, “Weed is from the earth. God put this here for me and you. Take advantage, man, take advantage.”
Ain't nothing wrong with smoking weed
As far as illegal drugs go, this mom could be doing something a lot worse, right? Even in my hometown they have an annual Hash Bash where people give speeches and rally for the legalization of marijuana. And just about everyone there has a blunt in hand or is trying to find one. To them it's worth the measly $25 fine to take a hit.
And this writer thinks smoking pot makes her a more attentive mom and a more tolerant wife.
I caught [my husband] trying to smash up garlic cloves with the end of some kind of broom handle instead of the Pampered Chef garlic press my aunt gave me at my wedding shower. See, that is exactly the kind of shit that would've irrationally pissed me off if I hadn't smoked. Instead, I just laughed.
Personally, I don't want to be that laid back. But if it works for her, who am I to judge. I just won't be scheduling any playdates at her house ... EVER!
What do you think? Is this mom crazy for thinking pot makes her a better parent?
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I don't think it makes one a better parent, but I don't think it's the worst thing one could do either.
Moderation and responsibility are the keys here. And the mom in the story obviously has and utilizes BOTH. If she does what she needs to be a mellower, more tolerant, fun kind of person, then so be it.
Hell, I've had my smoke moments. Then you get back to what needs doing...without wanting to go ballistic over something irrational. And guess what? Lexapro had horrible side effects. Weed? I grabbed a snack, and that was the end of it. Guess which one of those two medications I prefer? Bye bye Lexapro. And take your horrible headaches, cotton mouth, dizziness, and letdow irritability with you.
Yeah! Keep it up ladies! Plant the seed of Cannabis education today!
My son has been legl since 15 and I thank God every day fro the healing herb!
BETTER than a martini mama.
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I know plenty of parents that smoke and they are the best parents in the world. They don't smoke when the kids are around and they function just fine. The kids are safe, happy, and so are the parents. Imagine that.
I think it's perfectly fine as long as one of the parents is sober or the kid is out/sleeping.
"Yes weed affects everyone different and it can really mess up your head. No different then heroin!"
You REALLY need to think before you speak. You're totally ignorant about drugs. You CANNOT be physically addicted to weed or OVERDOSE. My boyfriend overdosed on heroin after being clean for a year, it's a powerful drug it's physically addictive, you withdrawl and you can overdose and die.
What you said is terrible, I hope you don't teach your kids that because I'm pretty sure you'd way rather anyone you care about smoke weed than shoot up heroin and possibly overdose.
"Taking any mind altering substance for the purpose of altering your mind and not because it is medically prescribed to treat an ailment is wrong."
That's your opinion..I don't think it's wrong at all if you take drugs seriously and as a spiritual experience rather than just getting messed up.
"Marijuana is illegal"
Yes..that doesn't mean it's illegal for a good reason.