I recently came across a Jezebel.com blog of a woman proud to be a pot-smoking mom. She made sure her husband could watch the baby while she got blitzed on the balcony. Then it was back to playtime, which, to her, was a hell of a lot cooler to do when baked. She wrote:
I realized that she's like the funniest fucking person I've ever met. Anybody who thinks that weed makes parents ignore their children has clearly never been high around one.
I got all judgy at first. What kind of mom so brazenly flaunts a weed habit? She asks the hubby to pull diaper duty NOT because she needed to run an errand or take a much needed, and I'm sure deserved, break. Nope. This anti-Donna Reed wanted a time-out to toke up. WHAT??? This takes co-parenting to a whole new level, don't you think?
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But as crazy as it is, that was actually the responsible thing to do. I mean, she could have just lit up in front of her kid. Plenty of parents do -- and not just the ones who use medical marijuana. There are even message boards debating whether it's okay to get high with the little ones watching.
It is illegal, of course, but marijuana is one of those drugs that a lot of people don't consider to be so wrong. I keep thinking about Chris Tucker's pot-obsessed character Smokey in Friday rationalizing, “Weed is from the earth. God put this here for me and you. Take advantage, man, take advantage.”
Ain't nothing wrong with smoking weed
As far as illegal drugs go, this mom could be doing something a lot worse, right? Even in my hometown they have an annual Hash Bash where people give speeches and rally for the legalization of marijuana. And just about everyone there has a blunt in hand or is trying to find one. To them it's worth the measly $25 fine to take a hit.
And this writer thinks smoking pot makes her a more attentive mom and a more tolerant wife.
I caught [my husband] trying to smash up garlic cloves with the end of some kind of broom handle instead of the Pampered Chef garlic press my aunt gave me at my wedding shower. See, that is exactly the kind of shit that would've irrationally pissed me off if I hadn't smoked. Instead, I just laughed.
Personally, I don't want to be that laid back. But if it works for her, who am I to judge. I just won't be scheduling any playdates at her house ... EVER!
What do you think? Is this mom crazy for thinking pot makes her a better parent?
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Comments 133
My issue with it is that its not just a little break "then your'e fine".
Weed sticks with you and impairs you for over 12 hours.
I loved weed, but whilst I am a mother I have cut it totally out of my life, parenting with a clear mind is a safer bet in my opinion.
Whats the big deal ? ... she goes OUT SIDE .... she LOVES to play with her kids after ... she sounds like a really good mummy l , like she dosent drive with them in the car , ... there are amny people who come home from work , men and women and have a beer or wine , then have 5 or 6 more ... and i've read ALLOt more cases of parents abusing there childen because they are DRUNK parents ... I have NEVER hured of a parents beating harming etc there child because they smoked a joint .... so call me crazy but more power to this mom .. if it makes her happy helps her get along with her husband , .. WANTS to spend time with her kid... who are we to judge ... most kids need that attetion from parents ... so if mommys smoked a joint and is playfully and loves to hang out and watch spongbob ... or dance like silly .... GREAT ...
Loved EVERYTHING you had to say jennaR1985, especially about educating littlepinkrose... was just about to go there myself - the ignorance of people really astounds me, why, idk! More power to you, you sound like a great momma... we all do what we gotta do to be the best people to our families, and much better than being a ZONKED out perscription filled zombie. One love!
I've been a young single mother before and I found other ways to relax...
it sure makes the park easier to take
I think some that are down on mothers smoking pot is that they are thinking of that pothead image in their head. Were not talking about someone that is just smoking one bowl after another 24/7. We talking a bowl or a joint a day or whatever. If the kids are asleep or if there is another parent there to help watch it shouldnt be a big deal. I have chronic pain at 28 years old and take percocet all day long. I am a SAHM and have no problem watching my son since my body is tolerant to the pills now. I dont feel any different. Smoking a bowl is the same. I would rather be able to smole pot and stop taking these pills. I have many more side effects associated with the meds then I would with pot. I am praying they legalize it in NY. People can say its bad for your lungs but then thats what a vaporizer is for. You wont find strung out junkie pot heads on the streets, its not physically addictive. Yes its psychologically addicttive, however; your body would aslo be addicted to those pills you swallow down but without the side effects. You cant overdose, like you can with other meds.