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'Punishment Wheel' Makes Disciplining Bratty Kids Fun

by Ericka Sóuter on May 31, 2012 at 4:28 PM

punishment wheelTo spank or not to spank? Are these time-outs really working? If you are like me, you have been debating how to discipline.

I may have found the answer. It's called a "Punishment Wheel." Never heard of it? No, it's not a medieval torture device, though your naughty kids might think so. It's like their very own Wheel of Misfortune when they are driving you nuts. And it's fantastic!

You see, "time-outs" started to lose their power when my son turned 3-and-a-half. One day as I was scolding him about something bratty he had done, he looked me right in the face and said, "Ok! Stop talking please. I want a time-out!" I wanted to laugh and cry at the same time. I thought, "Now what?"

Well, this punishment wheel, an invention of Jose R. Gonzalez, is so simple you are going to kick yourself for not coming up with it. It's basically a round contraption with a bunch of penalties on pie wedges.

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When the time comes, the kid spins the knob and waits for the arrow to land on his sentence. The kid has to stand there waiting for it, unsure of just how awful it will be. Yes, it's psychological warfare, but it may be the best deterrent ever because that anticipation is torture.

My favorite options: NO TV, GROUNDED, NO DESSERT, DONATE A TOY, PARENT'S CHOICE, NO FRIENDS, and 2ND CHANCE. But it can be customized with other penalties, including "Swat" (aka spanking), but I'd probably add another "Donate a Toy" instead to instill a little extra fear in my Thomas the Train addicted tot.

Problem is, I don't think this ingenious contraption is being sold yet. Until it is, I'll just whip up one with my son's construction paper and crayons. That should do just fine!

What do you think of the Punishment Wheel? Would you try it?

 

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Filed Under: discipline, tantrums

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  • kever...
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    keversole

    May 31, 2012 at 4:40 PM

    I loooove this idea


  • navyw...
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    navywife0204

    May 31, 2012 at 5:05 PM

    I need to try this on my 10 year old....


  • EvaSa...
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    EvaSamuel

    May 31, 2012 at 5:19 PM

    I think I'd rather the consequence fit the crime.


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    Krissy Wise

    May 31, 2012 at 5:49 PM

    I think this is a great idea...leaving the consequence up in the air.  Knowing they could get a major consequence for a minor crime...could make them not want to commit any acts of defiance at all.


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    Rose Savoie

    May 31, 2012 at 6:11 PM

    I think this is a great idea.  If people are worried about the punishment fitting the crime, you can always customize it, or make other versions. Say one for big things and one for little thing. Or a really easy at home version would be to write down 6 different consequences, then make your child roll a dice, or pick a number out of a hat. 

     


  • Lori
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    Lori

    May 31, 2012 at 7:06 PM
    I LOVE IT!! I think it's a great idea!!
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    Tiffany Smith

    May 31, 2012 at 7:09 PM

    I don't know if I agree with the donating a toy as discipline. We should teach our kids to donate what they don't need becuase its the right thing to do, not because they are in trouble.

     


  • Londy...
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    Londynjagermom

    May 31, 2012 at 7:13 PM
    I think it's a great idea. Wish I would've thought if it. I do daycare and kids have gotten old enough to care less about time outs. Even my own 3 yr old.
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    bzmommax4

    May 31, 2012 at 9:27 PM

    WHERE CAN I GET ONE? lol


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    Jennifer Bensley

    May 31, 2012 at 10:47 PM

    The consequence should be related to the issue.  Thus, this generic method isn't really going to drive the point home in the end.  *shrug*


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