When it comes to hot-button parenting topics like how long to breastfeed and whether TV is okay in moderation, I try to avoid getting caught in the "I'm right/You're wrong" vortex of righteous indignation. Meaning, I might be opinionated, but I try not to be judgmental. At least not outwardly.
That said, the latest chapter in the To Vaccinate or Not to Vaccinate saga is disturbing enough to warrant, let's say, a formal expression of concern. (Which is not the same as a judgement. Not really.)
Look, it's dangerous enough to decide against vaccinating your child because of religious beliefs. But let's say another kid at school comes down with one of those communicable diseases your child didn't get immunized against. What if the principal temporarily banned your kid from school for her own protection?
Would you be grateful to that principal or would you ... sue the school?
If you were Fabian Mendoza-Vaca and Nicole Phillips of Queens, New York, apparently you would sue the school. That's right, they're asking a judge to nullify a law that would force their kids to stay out of school if classmates are carrying diseases such as measles, mumps, or chicken pox.
Explained Mendoza-Vaca:
It is my opinion that resorting to vaccinations demonstrates a lack of faith in God, which would anger God and therefore be sacrilegious ... We don't want anything being into our bodies at all. We'd rather rely on our natural immune system and our faith in God. This is about my children's rights.
Oh-kay. So not only are you NOT going to vaccinate your kids, you're also not going to let any person or institution take any measures to protect them?
To me, this takes the anti-vax argument too far. It's a huge, selfish step in the wrong direction: The direction of blatant irresponsibility.
I'm not religious now, but I was raised in a religious home. And my grandmother had a faith-related saying that seems to apply here, "God helps those who help themselves."
Here's hoping God helps the unvaccinated kids who can't yet help themselves, too.
Do you think these anti-vax parents are going too far?
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Comments (84)
i love that analogy butterflmkm! yes, this mother is going too far. if she doesn't want to do the vac, fine but the school has an obligation to society to keep these diseases as contained as possible CDC would agree.
What's anti-religious about quarantine? Didn't they talk about leper colonies in the Bible? These people are morons and their children need to be protected from their idiocy.
First, I vaccinated my children - I BELIEVED that was best for them. Second, this is ABSOLUTELY about their rights - the FREEDOM OF RELIGION - their FREEDOM TO BELIEVE WHAT THEY CHOOSE WITHOUT GOVERNMENT INTERFERENCE!!!!!!!!! I am so tired of the attack on beliefs that are not the "norm" and of the stomping on the Constitution. Why do you believe that you are smarter than the parents and you are right and they are wrong? Or that our Government is smarter than the parents and should force them to behave like you would like? This "we know best" attitude is a very slippery slope which is becoming an avalanche on top of the Constitution!!!!!!!!
Momiwant, did you read the article? its not about vaccinating your kids. Its about the school keeping unvaccinated children quarantined when there is an outbreak.
no one is making this mother vaccinate.
But just a odd question. If they don't beleive in anythinf in their bodies like this, if said child did contract something of any magnitude, would they allow medical treatment because its not part of their natural immune system? Something to think about.