Listen up, retail managers: Moms are fed up with being told they can't nurse in public. They want everyone to know they have the right to breastfeed anywhere in public without being harassed -- and they're taking to the streets next week with their message! Or at least, they're taking it to a Target store near you.
Michelle Hickman was breastfeeding her baby at a Houston Target when two female employees asked her to take her breastfeeding to a changing room. Hickman told them she had a right to nurse in public, and they told her they were just doing their job: They'd been trained to direct nursing moms to changing rooms. So Michelle is calling for a nurse-in at Target stores all over the world on December 28 to pressure the retail giant to train its employees better. But this isn't just about Target.
I could write an almost endless post about all the stories about women harassed for public breastfeeding just this year. We've seen moms harassed at restaurants, courthouses, airplanes, buses, and even museums! (What the hell? I'm pretty sure I've breastfed my son at every art museum in Washington, D.C., including the Hirshorn.) It seems like there's another incident every week!
Well the harassment isn't silencing women and it's not sending them back into bathroom stalls. If anything, these stories are fueling moms' outrage and making them bolder about breastfeeding in public. And I only say "them" because I'm no longer breastfeeding. I'm in complete solidarity with these women. I hope a few of the nurse-in gatherings on the 28th are big, and I hope they change a few minds.
Someday, maybe 5 years from now, maybe 10, breastfeeding in public will become no big deal. I think we're heading in that direction. As more and more moms come "out of the closet" with their public nursing, the more people just get used to it. Occupy Wall Street may not be resonating with moms in a huge way. But Occupy Boob -- that is really hitting a nerve with us.
Do you think harassment for public breastfeeding will someday end?
Image via Daquella manera/Flickr
Exclusive 'Snow White & the Huntsman' Clip (VIDEO)
Arrest in Etan Patz Missing Child Case (VIDEO)
A Chilling Past Life Experience Recounted
Controversy: Gwen Stefani Bleaches Her Son's Hair
A '50 Shades of Grey' Shortcut for Busy Moms
Latest on Baby in Washing Machine Case (VIDEO)
Are People Who Eat Organic Judgy & Mean?
A Dad's Perspective on Playdates
Bagged Salad Recall Sparks New Fears
Help Dying 4-Year-Old Fulfill His Bucket List (VIDEO)
Melissa McCarthy & Sandra Bullock's Buddy Cop Movie
Do Working Moms Have It Easy?
Your Morning Coffee Could Save Your Life
Join the Fight Against Toxic Kids' Products
8 Summery Sweet Popsicles You Can Make at Home
Emma Lives with Severe Food Allergies
How to Pack a No-Waste Lunch
Memorial Day Survival Guide
Backstage at Mamma Mia! with Irene Bunis

Comments (30)
I sure hope so!
Doubtful, this country will always hold to its unfortunate puritanical roots. Good luck to all the moms and babies! If I still had any milk left, I'd join! lol
Until we start understanding and respecting our bodies more, I highly doubt that much progress will be made. Most of our medical professionals have no concept of the mechanisms of breastfeeding, so how can the average person?
As far as Target goes, I can speak from experience when I say that it is damn near impossible to comfortably nurse in a Target changing room. They have these stupid circular seats that have no back or arms, that are tiny and super uncomfortable.
Screw nursing in peace. I am with child, and I've read up WELL on the breastfeeding laws in my state. By the time by baby girl pops out, I don't care where I am or how many people are around me, if my baby needs to nurse she can damn well do what she pleases. I think it is absolutely disgusting how they are 'shunning' breastfeeding in public. It appauls me to the point where I can't wait to have her just so I can breastfeed her EVERYWHERE they say I can't. (The laws in my state say that absolutely nothing can stop me from breastfeeding whereever I see fit except at my place of employment.) There are no laws here for place of employment, but everywhere else, TARGET, Courthouse, the street, I can feed my child whenever she is hungry.
I am having a hard time with the mom's story. Its the holidays and it is virtually impossible to find a quiet place in any store this time of the year. Is it possible that she was in a place where the staff had to take into consideration safety, such as sitting on shelving or on a display??? Or in the middle of an aisle where other people were trying to shop? I am not in any way saying she shouldn't breastfeed in public (I did it with 4 kids), but I am wondering where in the store this was taking place. Additionally, the Targets in our area don't have places to sit throughout the store. There is usually one or two benches near the doors and then a cafe, which is the other reason I am wondering where she was attempting to breastfeed.
I don't often see moms nursing in public around here, sadly -- mostly because there's no comfortable place!
When I used to work in an indoor playplace for children (we offered birthday parties and open play times) there were tons and tons of mothers with nursing babies. We had centrally located, comfortable couches where moms could sit to watch their children from, and they would often breastfeed their babies there. Nobody ever hassled them or gave them odd looks.