In Oklahoma earlier this month, two boys -- Hunter, 10, and Carter, 9 -- were playing together like young boys will. They were giggling, roughhousing, and eating gummy worms, when all of a sudden Hunter knew something was wrong.
He knew it was wrong because his best friend, Carter, was doing the international sign for choking. At first Hunter thought he was joking, but he quickly realized it was the real deal and sprang into action.
After performing the Heimlich maneuver five times, the worm came out, and Carter was fine. He very literally saved his best friend's life -- not something most 10-year-olds can say.
Fortunately in this case, both boys' mothers are registered nurses and had taught them the life-saving technique and the international sign for choking. Too many children don't know either, and this situation could have easily turned tragic.
Choking is one of my big worries, and I'm constantly nagging my children to "chew it up good," "sit down until you're finished eating," and "that bite is too big!" Also, I have no idea how old they have to be before I'll ever feel comfortable letting them eat if I'm not in the room. Sometimes I let my son, who is almost 8, but I think about all the what ifs constantly and don't go far when he is. With my toddler daughter, I never leave her even for a few minutes.
But there's preschool, and the crowded, noisy, grade school lunchroom, and plenty of places where our children will eat without constant supervision, so like these mothers did, the best thing we can do is teach them what to do if they see someone choking and what to do if they themselves are choking. Hopefully it's information they'll never need.
As for Hunter and Carter, they don't think it was a huge deal. Carter told Fox 23, "It was kinda scary, but that was the past, and this is the future." Such wise boys.
Have you taught your children the Heimlich maneuver and/or the international sign for choking? How old do you think they have to be to eat alone?
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Comments (9)
I agree; at 8, he should definitely be trusted to eat by himself. What do you think he does at school during lunch? There isn't a teacher standing over his shoulder going "Wait, that bite's too big! Chew that more!" I can see if he was a toddler. I had toddlers who took one look at the food I'd cut up so carefully, laugh, and shove whole handfuls in their mouths at once. We had a few scares, but luckily none that needed the Heimlich. I got certified years ago, but hope I never have to use it. Ditto my CPR certification. I'll get them certified when they're old enough, same with CPR. You just never know, and it's better to know it than not.
Def. think teachering your child both those things is the best way to go!
my kids know the hemlich and international sign for choking and cpr, khloe is 7 and tiny and not so great at it but she would try to save you. and my kids have been eating alone for a long time, well not really alone because their siblings are there too but every since they could feed themselves once you get past 4 kids at a table there is just no room for mom and dad anymore and with of them there now theres just no way i am going into that.
oops supposed to say with 9 of them
yes I teach all my children first aid & also to eat small bites/ slowly. around six you should be able to leave your kid alone to eat. this child should be very proud of himself
Choking is one of my hugest fears. . .I'm probably a bit overly paranoid about it. so i don't think it's so "Insane" to wait a while until they are older to eat alone. My son is only 3 & my daughter is one so they both cannot eat alone yet.
im certified and after reading this article i think before my oldest goes back to school ill sign her up to take a class