A toddler was raped, but as horrific as the thought is, those who raped her shouldn't be punished. You see, her attackers were just boys -- 7- and 9-year-old boys who shouldn't even know what rape is. Someone is to blame, but it's not them.
It happened in Memphis this past summer. The 2-year-old victim's brother, 5, saw it occurring and told his mom. Thank goodness he did. While the boys first blamed each other, they later admitted to the crime.
The boys are due in court today where prosecutors are recommending they be removed from their families' homes and placed in state custody for treatment, not punishment. They want to determine what these boys have been exposed to that would make them do this to another child. James Sanders, the attorney defending the 9-year-old boy, told the Memphis Commercial Appeal:
What happened to this victim is horrible, nobody is minimizing that. But my client has a lot of problems and needs some immediate help. Somebody's got to rescue this kid.
Someone has to rescue them all.
This is one of those stories that I recount through tears, because it's so awful and so unimaginable that such vile, evil things can happen to innocent children. And really, at this point, all three should still be innocent. Something has to be very, very wrong in one's life for a mind that young to be infected like this.
But as much as I don't want to blame these boys because of their age, where do we draw a line? Is there really an age at which one suddenly should be able to account for his tragic background, overcome what he's been exposed to, and now be able to stand up and do the right thing? Yes, we have to expect that, but we also have to expect that some won't be able to. It doesn't in any way make what the victim suffered any less horrifying or their actions justifiable in the least, it just make the whole situation more tragic.
Do you think these boys should be punished?
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How does something like this happen ? They should be punished along with getting help!
9 is old enough to be held accountable. honestly, in the eyes of the law, 7 is as well. i don't entirely understand why they are hesitating to punish these boys.
I feel that both the boys and their parents should be punished somehow. First of all, these boys were old enough to know at a minimum about private parts and that we don't touch or look at other's privates, and that we don't lets others touch or look at ours. My kids knew this at 3! That should have been all they needed to know it was wrong! But as stated early in another's reply, they knew it was wrong enough to blame each other! They knew it was wrong at somelevel, great or small. Period. And aside from punishment the definately need therapy!
Now, the parents. What the hell are your kids seeing at home to make them think this was ok, or to even teach them HOW to do it?! I am not as shocked about the 9 year old as I am the 7 year old. It seems that 9 and 10 are the new 16 and 17 these days. It is a horrifying thought though, as I have a 6 and 9 year old. I don't think parents are to blame for everything their kids do, nor are all parents who have kids that do bad things not good parents. But I seiously think there is an underlying issue here!
A question- Where was a supervising authority at when this happened? Yeah, my 6 year old gets into trouble in the blink of an eye, but I'm thinking this would have taken long enough that someone should have popped in to atleast check on the kids, especially the two year old, who I also think would have been crying in discomfort or pain, or from being restrained in someway...Just trying to wrap my head around all of this!
Yes, they need to be punished, and removed from whatever hell they are living in! That poor baby! This is why people need to take parenting seriously! There are so many parents out there that think that their actions (usually in front of their children) will have no effect on them. Children are so impressionable and follow their examples.
They need to be punished and receive treatment. I have a 9 year old boy and an 11 year old boy and they know right from wrong. Granted, there needs to be some MAJOR investigation into their home lives to find out how in the heck they learned this kind of behavior, but these boys do need to be punished for what they did. Some serious treatment is in order as well, for ALL of those involved in this horrible situation.
I believe that somethign happened to this boys. They need help and counseling. They are probably victims of sexually abuse themselves.
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I just HAVE to ask: WHERE WERE THE PARENTS WHILE THIS WAS GOING ON?!? By that I mean, the parents of the little girl AND the parents of the boys?