High School Boys Create Fantasy Slut League Game to Chart Sexual Conquests

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schoolSome Piedmont, California parents received quite a shock when they learned of a sick sex game going on in the kids' high school. It seems some boys had started a Fantasy Slut League in which they "drafted"  unsuspecting girls and scored points for sex with them.

School officials were tipped off by students after a date-rape prevention assembly. While this twisted extracurricular is not illegal, it certainly is immoral. I wish I could say I was totally surprised by the depravity, but sadly I'm not.

The letter from Principal Rich Kitchens said it was set up by members of varsity teams and described a competition "in which our female students (unbeknownst to most of them) are drafted as part of the league...Male students earn points for documented engagement in sexual activities with female students."

School officials hope alerting the parents will spark "an open, serious and honest dialogue between kids and families," said. Randall Booker, assistant superintendent. "It's one thing for us to have a conversation with our students. It's another thing for families to have that dinner-table conversation."

To be frank, that is a discussion that should have happened years. ago. So many teen boys everywhere have no respect for female peers. I can't tell you how many times I've seen young men get out of line with a girl they see on the street or on the subway. In the instance at this school, older students would pressure younger ones to join in. "Participation often involved pressure/manipulation by older students that included alcohol to impair judgement/control and social demands to be popular," the principal explained.

It part it is the fault of an over-sexualized society. We can't take our eyes off of the Jersey Shore's smush-fest, the Bachelorette's fantasy suite, and just about every other racy reality show on TV. Nothing is left to the imagination. Nothing! In fact, one night stands are celebrated and deemed cool. Even what was once considered a taboo, like teen pregnancy, is now a gateway to fame.

But the half of the blame is squarely on our shoulders. I know teens who want to have sex are going to have sex. There has to be a way to teach them that this kind of behavior is not okay. If there is a way to intervene, it has to begin when they are young.

Teaching out kids about sex isn't just a how-to, nut and bolts discussion. And it's not just girls that need to learn how to respect their bodies. With males, there is still this "boys will be boys" attitude with a wink, wink. That in not only sleazy, it's dangerous in this day and age. There is something to be said for teaching old-fashioned, genteel manners, especially when it comes to dealing with women. Bottom line, it is our responsibility to make sure our boys grow up to be good, decent young men.

How can we teach boys to be more respectful of women?


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Anna Potts

beat it into them!

momto... momtolittleg

Yuck.  If I had a son involved in that, I would kick his ass into next week and he wouldn't leave the house until he was 21.

The girls should start a fantasy league and score points for kicking these guys in the nuts anytime they tried something.

Lilyp... Lilypad523

This is disgusting. But you say that young men have no respect for women, but I'd say a lot of women have no respect for themselves. Not that I'm blaming the victim, I'm certainly not...I'm just tired of girls wearing slutty clothes and then getting mad that they're being ogled and hit on my jackasses.

Caera Caera

Guys have been doing stuff like that forever. Who cares? Furthermore, I knew a couple of girls in college who did the same thing. Again, who cares?

doodl... doodlebut

With our boys we've instilled in them respect for girls since day one. We don't allow shows or music that degrades girls. Its a hard thing to do, and there is no guarantee.

Selb Selb

Well damn me n my friends did this in hs..and guys we knew also did it..I didn't see a problem then n I still don't it just a game

nonmember avatar chilichowder

It's not the girls' fault for what they wear. Boys should be taught to control their impulses and not try to hook up with girls simply because they're wearing 'slutty clothes'. This is such a disgusting thing for the boys to have done regardless of how the girls dress anyway.

This sort of reminds me of that movie All I Wanna Do where the boys make a bet on who gets the date with the largest chest (requiring photographic evidence) and other guys catch them and stomp on their camera to teach them a lesson. I loved that part.

Desti... Destiny907

It seem it's not only in High School... HOW many unwed mothers do YOU know also, in their 20's.... the guys are still lying, the girls still not wise enough to just say NO and wait for a wedding.........

I am glad that today, the men cannot deny a baby they made, thanks to DNA testing.  What is super sad, is the caliber of guys and girls out there- they don't have enough intelligence between the two of them to equal a dog, or way and means to even take care of themselves... but they "like sex"!!!!!!!!!!!!! And we all pay the price for all these babies.  And the girls scream to the guys YOUR gonna paaay!!!! And our courts are full of custody battles and police calls...

Most times, I look back and the folks were wise to just not let their teen girls out of their sight...

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