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Student Suspended for Wiping Hands on American Flag After Using the Bathroom (VIDEO)

by Jill Baughman on June 7, 2012 at 6:19 PM

American flagSo here's a story that is a lot more complex than a simple case of he-said, she-said. A 13-year-old boy served a one-day in-school suspension after he reportedly used an American flag to wipe his hands after leaving the bathroom. On top of this, Moses Hinton is the only African-American student in the Virginia Beach Plaza Middle School's gifted program; his parents are saying that he was unfairly punished because of it ... although the principal at the school is black.

There's definitely a lot going on here. When confronted about it, Moses allegedly told the teacher there were no paper towels left in the bathroom, but according to the boy’s mother, "His response was 'mommy I was coming up the stairs and I lost my balance and I touched the flag.'"

Oh boy. No matter, it seems that Hinton did touch the flag. But I do feel like a one-day suspension was extreme in this case.

Of course, if Moses did wipe his hands on the flag, he should have been punished ... it's a symbol that must always be respected. My dad is a veteran and my brother went to the Air Force Academy; I know all the rules when it comes to the flag and I don't mess around with them. People who intentionally deface the flag should be held accountable, no doubt about it.

But the flag in the auditorium wasn't damaged or broken or stained beyond repair. It was a careless mistake; it wasn't as if the boy actually had the intention to take the flag off the pole and stomp around on it. Perhaps he could have gotten a warning or detention or written an essay about the flag instead -- a suspension will be on his record, and it's too harsh a punishment.

Still, I don't believe that Hinton's race had anything to do with suspending him, though his parents say otherwise. "Why react so harshly?" said the Hintons' attorney. "You have a bright, gifted, young black male; it seems to be an attempt to pour ice water on his motivation."

Would the punishment have been less severe had a white student wiped his hands on the flag? It's an impossible question to answer -- I just hope that Moses will be able to move on from this incident and continue to succeed in his gifted program, politics and patriotism aside.

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    threeforme157

    June 7, 2012 at 6:28 PM

    This shit makes me so mad!  I hate that they play the race card (even though the principal is black!)  and of course the mom says her baby did not do anything.  Then suprise, they now have a lawyer preparing a lawsuit.  My husband is a principal at a large urban school and he loves the kids and does everything he can to get his students to succeed but a portion of the parents do everything they can to interfere.


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    the4mutts

    June 7, 2012 at 6:29 PM
    What's funny, is that when I was in HS 11 yrs ago, the white kids were punnished more harshly for EVERY infraction. They expected better of us than they did the minority kids. Which is horribly degrading to minorities. They are just as capable of behaving as every other person in the school.
    The kid should be glad he was punnished. It shows that they expected better behavior from him. It was not a severe punnishment. Its not like he was expelled from the district or something. This isn't a punnishment even worthy of complaint, much less a lawyer.
    And btw, a 13 yr old saying "mommy" plus the "tripped and touched it" excuse... common now! That's the biggest load of crap ever!
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    June 7, 2012 at 6:55 PM
    Try again folks! The school has violated this kids rights. Supreme Court Strikes Down All Laws Banning Flag Desecration (1989): Outside the 1984 Republican National Convention in Dallas, Gregory Lee Johnson burned a flag in protest against President Ronald Reagan's policies. He was arrested under Texas' flag desecration statute. In its 5-4 ruling in Texas v. Johnson, the Supreme Court struck down flag desecration laws in 48 states by ruling that flag desecration is a constitutionally protected form of free speech. So, either way, this kid should not have been punished and the school could very easily be sued.
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    zandhmom2

    June 7, 2012 at 7:01 PM

    What?!! A black man trying to hold a black kid down? NO WAY! And really no 13 year old boy says "Mommy" at that age.  Much ado about nothing.


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    billsfan1104

    June 7, 2012 at 7:16 PM
    While he was suspended, they should of taken him to a Veterens Home and talk to them about respected the flag.
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    SierraLynn

    June 7, 2012 at 7:17 PM
    It was disrespectful and the punishment suits.
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    S

    June 7, 2012 at 7:27 PM
    I would question whether or not the boy understood how to properly treat an American flag. Flag napkins, paper plates and even doormats can be purchased at big box stores. Wiping your greasy hands and face on a flag napkin then throwing it in the trash isn't being respectful to the ideals the flag represents either but people do it.

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    threeforme157

    June 7, 2012 at 7:27 PM

    Jai- he is in trouble with the school because it was disrespectful, yes he did not break a law but he is not in trouble with the law.  Just like there are freedom of speech laws but if he called a teacher a name he would be in trouble with the school.  There are rules that we have to obey at school and at work or we get punished or fired. If he does not learn respect now then he is going to have a hard time being successful as an adult.


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    billsfan1104

    June 7, 2012 at 7:42 PM
    S, he is a gifted 13 yr old. I would question in intelligence if he doesnt know the differencw between a napkin and a flag on a pole.
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    June 7, 2012 at 7:50 PM
    @billsfan - touché. My point is that the flag is becoming just another "thing", not something to be treated with respect and honor.
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