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Bristol Palin vs. 'Teen Mom' Stars -- Who Prevents More Teen Pregnancies?

by Sheri Reed on April 6, 2011 at 5:56 PM

Bristol Palin
Bristol Palin
So you have a teen-aged daughter with a serious boyfriend and you absolutely don't want her to get pregnant. You've talked yourself blue in the face about waiting to have sex and sexual responsibility and maybe even gotten her on birth control, but you'll take any other deterrent you can find.

So, for the sake of conversation, do you expose her to: a) Bristol Palin, who got knocked up despite mom Sarah Palin's abstinence message but went on to start a lucrative career as a celebrity teen mom and teen pregnancy prevention and abstinence advocate, or b) the average, screwed-up stars of MTV's Teen Mom reality show who agree to show us the true grit of teen motherhood in every episode?

Bristol Palin and the stars of Teen Mom are all cashing in to varying degrees on youthful mommyhood, but are any of them actually helping to prevent future unwanted pregnancies? If so, who's doing a better job?

It was revealed this week that Bristol Palin was paid a salary of $262,500 in 2009 by a teen pregnancy prevention nonprofit called the Candie’s Foundation. She did work to earn this money, but I am curious to know if she prevented a single pregnancy during that campaign. I mean, with the immense support she gets from her famous family and the enormous list of financial opportunities (can you say DWTS?), how does she serve as an example of what not to be? For one, no average teen is going to be able to relate to Bristol Palin or feel that she is anything like them. Secondly, if she makes it look easy (even though it's surely not), how is she actively deterring other teenagers from following in her footsteps?

Then there are the Teen Mom stars, who are rumored to have made $60,000-$65,000 a season. This is a very hefty salary for these young girls for sure, especially since they're all teenagers and at most from lower middle class families. However, the "goods" these girls are selling, unlike Bristol's, happen to be real peeks inside their struggle-filled lives, which can be pretty darn scary and horrifying. And isn't the truth and the ugliness what our teens really need to see, instead of a life like Bristol's, which fares far better than most hardworking American adults who have planned their lives and their pregnancies?

I get it -- celebrities get you noticed. However, we're talking about unwanted pregnancy here, not selling nail polish. I'm not sure an out-of-touch celebrity like Bristol Palin is making any difference for any young girl about to engage in unsafe sex.

Who do you think is the better advocate for teen pregnancy prevention? Feel free to say none of the above at this point, but tell us why.

 

Image via The Candie's Foundation

Filed Under: celebrity teens, sex, motherhood

Comments

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  • butte...
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    butterflymkm

    April 6, 2011 at 6:19 PM
    Teen mom. Even the bad ones like jenelle show how horrible things can turn out and Leah shows how heartbreaking it is to have a child that's sick. They all show how tough it is to get the babys dad to help out (except Leah) the show the nitty gritty
  • Leann...
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    Leanne Carnegie

    April 6, 2011 at 6:52 PM

    I don't think it's a competition.  The more teenage sex/pregnancy prevention out there, the better, right?    Why should we attempt to judge who's "more effective".  Different approaches work for different people.

    And I don't think Bristol Palin is "out of touch".   Yea, she's leading a very different life now than she did pre-2008 (when she got pregnant)... but that doesn't mean she can't talk to young girls about what not to do.   Not everyone will have the opportunities, or fantastic family, like she has.  


  • bills...
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    billsfan1104

    April 6, 2011 at 7:22 PM
    WOW. Is this pick on Bristol Palin day? I am waiting for Ms Sager to blog about Bristol, but she made a new Years Resolution to refrain from mentioning Palin. I dont think it is a competition on who can prevent teen pregnancy better. I think that Teen MOm and Bristol can both bring different perspectives to their situations. Bristol can tell people that even with a good family and good education, they can get caught up with the puppy love and get pregnant too. She can tell them, not to get caught up into it and learn from her.
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    xavierlogan09

    April 6, 2011 at 8:06 PM

    i think the teen moms do. bristol palin has something a lot of them don't. money. she gets paid to be on the dwts although she isn't famous. she just got buzz because of her mother. i think it scares some teens when they watch teen mom. because they see how drastically life changes when you have a child. they see that you no longer get to be a teen but a mother for the rest of your life.


  • Amber...
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    Amber Harris

    April 7, 2011 at 12:27 AM
    I personally think with all of the exposure that Bristol and the teen moms are getting makes it look glamorous even with showing how "hard" it is to raise a baby on national television. Think about it, some girls could be thinking "Well I have a supportive family like Bristol and if I have a baby they won't put me out on the street, right?" which would be similar to Bristol's situation. Yes, Sarah Palin publicly stated that abstinence should be practiced regularly among teens, but when did the public see her getting disciplined for what happened? No one knows what her life was like because it was never shown. Then you have then teen mom girls. Some girls could be thinking, "Ooh! If I have a baby I can be on Teen Mom and the cover of magazines and everyone would buy me stuff because of the baby, and then I get a phat check from MTV all because I had a baby! How cool is that? Maybe that's how I will break into acting!!" <---Really? What will you tell them when they say Paris Hilton got famous for doing less work.... Just my opinion. I think girls look at that TV show and say "I can do that, that girl on TV just doesn't know what she's doing"
  • Heath...
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    Heather Robertson

    April 7, 2011 at 12:58 AM
    I think that the Teen Moms show displays more of the reality of the day to day struggles but I agree with the other comment in that it's not a competition. The whole point is to prevent teen pregnancies... I was a teen mom who happened to have a very supportive family but it was still an extremely difficult situation. My parents taught me the right things to do yet I made irresponsible choices. Honestly, watching a show like Teen Mom might have had an impact on me. I watch it with all 3 of my kids, including my teenage son. It, combined with my own experiences, has been a valuable teaching tool and my kids all know the harsh reality of what happens when teenagers do grown-up things and make grown-up decisions. I just hope that more parents provide their kids with opportunities to talk about it and ask questions. My parents did their best but I never would have talked to them about any of this. Perhaps, as parents, we need to do our best to keep the lines of communication open and not leave it up to Bristol Palin or a show on MTV.
  • Tabitha
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    Tabitha

    April 8, 2011 at 12:51 PM
    Teen mom, for sure. It actually follows a girl in high school being pregnant having a child. It's not a compettion were talking about teens getting pregnant in high school and struggling with graduating, being a mom, single parent (in some of the cases) and working. Even at 21 when I had my first it was a struggle.
  • sunny...
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    sunnybunny5us

    April 8, 2011 at 1:40 PM

    Wow, back when I was a teenager it was considered sophisticated to be "on the pill" . Maybe someone should be pushing that kind of thinking, instead of "how hard it is to take care of a baby" (because unless you are as stupid as every one of the teen moms on MTV is - it's not.The actual difficulty raising kids usually kicks in about 8-16 yrs later). But teen pregnancy is down, so maybe the awareness is helping. 


  • Ef
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    Ef

    April 8, 2011 at 1:53 PM
    As a young mother of too I can say it is verry hard to have kids at a young age is not anymore of wat u want or need is wat they need teen parents specially teen grls dont know wat they getting into when they think being pregnant is nothin .. You lose friend 'social life sometimes even ur education plus its harder when u have no family helping you .. Its an everyday job a hard one . teen pregnancy is a big issue many teens become single moms and its so hard to raise a baby u have to work ...take care of the baby...buy everurhing they need ect..... Teens should really try safe sex there is birthcontrolills and other methods ,also condoms if they,to inbares to buy,them there is,free clinics that give out condoms also there abstenece with isnt workin.... But teens should also have in,mind that ,teen pregnancy isnt the only risk of not having safe sex there is also stds hiv/aid stis they,should be more programs preventing pregnanvy at a young age ...,they # of grls getting pregnant at a young age,is rising ..... More parents should explain to their kids the risk ...we should try to prevent teen pregnancy for teens moms /parent ... Cause its a nig reponsibiLity and everyday one .
  • Jenniy
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    Jenniy

    April 8, 2011 at 2:42 PM

    Teen Mom.....


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