Is high-tech gadgetry diminishing the ability of adults to give proper supervision to very young children? According to this Wall Street Journal article, the answer is "probably, so for Christ's sake put your phone down, you neglectful monster."
Okay, so that's not exactly what it says. The theory is this: the near-ubiquity of hand-held electronic devices are one possible reason why injury rates for young kids have been on the rise lately -- as in, a 12 percent increase between 2007 and 2010. As a pediatrician who's part of the American Academy of Pediatrics working group for injury, violence, and poison prevention puts it, "The injuries were going down and down and down. (The recent uptick) is pretty striking."
The article raises some truly disturbing connections between "device distraction" and childhood injuries or even deaths -- but does this mean I'm going to ban my cellphone from the playground? Yeah, probably not.
It's difficult to establish causality where there appears to be an association. While the use of electric devices is on the rise along with kid injuries, no formal research has looked at whether one causes the other.
Still, I believe it. Phones and other handheld electronics can be a huge distraction, and studies do show that people tend to underestimate just how much of our attention is pulled away when we're "multitasking."
The article goes on to list a number of incredibly tragic accidents that happened when a parent or caregiver was engrossed with their phone, including a drowning that was found to be a "direct result" of inadequate supervision. The Department of Children and Families report noted, "Mother twittering at the time the child passed."
I'm not surprised at all to hear that some injuries may happen as the result of a distracted-by-technology parent. But as upsetting as some of the anecdotes are, I doubt I'll ban my phone from any of my child-supervising activities. Maybe because my kids are a little older, and don't require me to watch their every move. Or maybe because I think there's a line between checking out completely, and hovering near a kid out of pure paranoia.
I often use my phone at the playground. I mean, there I am, sitting on a bench within several yards of my kids -- I don't feel bad about pulling out my phone and dicking around for a bit to pass the time. I wouldn't do that if they were, say, playing in a pool and I was the only parent on duty. Or if they were in a huge play area where I couldn't see them at all times. But I usually feel pretty confident in my ability to glance at my phone, glance at my kids, and so on.
Of course, that's exactly what most people think, and it may be that it's easy to overestimate our ability to focus on more than one subject at a time. Still, I wonder why we're so quick to vilify electronics over, for instance, books? I'm far more likely to get engrossed in a book than a tweet, but I don't think I've ever heard any stories about The Awful Parent Who Was Reading a Paperback at the Playground Oh My God.
Personally, I think it's all about common sense and balance. Don't get embroiled in a text conversation if you're monitoring an 18-month-old near a body of water. Similarly, don't stare worried holes in the back of your first-grader as he enjoys himself on a swingset. We shouldn't be disengaged from our kids when they need us -- but at the same time, we can't prevent every injury, no matter how many distractions we eliminate.
Do you think parents should avoid using electronic devices when they're on kid duty?
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while i agree that there are many people who are more distracted by their technology, i think that correlation also ties in with our reporting and studying methods now. think about it this way: in 1985, we didn't have technology to blame it on. kids fell, kids got hurt - it was considered "kids being kids". in fact, if you click over to http://www.cpsc.gov/library/data.html you will see that they didn't even necessarily maintain data about children and playground injuries until early 2000, so of course it would seem to 'compound exponentially' when you realize how much stuff has gone unreported. i mean, personally, i was a child of the 80's and i guarantee you my mom gave me an ice pack, a mini lecture and some hugs and kisses and all was well. now there are other dangers, and parents are quick to bring their kids to drs / pediatricians / hospitals to make sure everything is "ok". i think the results show more of a shift of acknowledgement that these things happen in large numbers rather than a bunch of too-busy moms with heads in their smartphones.
I was going to mention the "other" distractions so I was glad when you did. I was at the playground 30+ years ago with my boys and there were no cell phones but people read, they did all kinds of puzzle books or some even *gasp* listed to headphones. I don't believe the "distraction" is the phone. I feel the "distraction is the "distraction" and it depends how old your child is while you're doing something else.
You don't sit a 1 year old in the middle of the playground and walk away to sit on a bench. They aren't steady on their feet and you need to be right there with them but if you have a 3, 4 or 5 year old, they need to be running and playing and it only takes one trip to get hurt and you're not going to be on top of them no matter what you're doing on that bench.
COMMON SENSE!
A good number of humans lack situational awareness. There is a large segment of the population who pay zero attention to what is going on around them. Unfortunately, those folks don't tend to be very self-aware, either, and probably cannot accurately gauge whether or not they can pay attention to their cell phones and their kids at the same time.
A truly distracted parent (someone who is absorbed in doing something else, not casually messing with their phone) would be distracted no matter the technology. The other day an older man (65ish) walked right into me at a cross walk and almost knocked me over and went on his way not even apologizing. He was looking down at a newspaper in his hands the entire time. If that same man just happened to be 20 then it would have been a cell phone. You can't blame technology for inattentiveness because people would just find something else to play with.
I agree about common sense..
I agree with common sense that another person already mentioned.
What drives me mad is seeing people pushing their kids in a stroller and yakking on the phone. TALK TO YOUR KID!