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Former NFL Player Reveals He's Gay After Being in the Closet for Years

by Mary Fischer on June 7, 2012 at 11:00 AM

football fieldWe don't often hear about too many professional athletes being gay, but now that a former NFL star has come out of the closet and admitted to knowing he was gay for quite some time, other sports figures may be less intimidated to do the same.

And while a player being gay probably would've caused a stir 20 or even 10 years ago, in this day and age, it's really not a big deal at all. People are so much more accepting now of those who are gay -- to the point where it's virtually unthinkable that anyone would have a problem with an athlete coming out.

And although he hid the fact that he was gay for a number of years because he thought it would hurt his chances of making an NFL roster -- Wade Davis finally got sick and tired of hiding who he was. He officially came out in an interview with OutSports.com.

It must have been so tough for Wade not to be able to be honest with himself while he was working with the Tennessee Titans, Washington Redskins, and Seattle Seahawks. It can't be easy for a gay man to be involved in professional sports in general, but I imagine football is even harder, considering the nature of the sport. Even though we'd like to think his teammates would've accepted him for who he is, odds are good that he would've been subjected to a lot of grief on the field, not to mention in the locker room. It's understandable that he remained silent until he was done with the NFL.

But hopefully now that he's spoken up, others will be less afraid to follow in his footsteps, no matter what sport they play. 

Do you think being a gay professional athlete is a big deal?

 

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  • Christie
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    Christie

    June 7, 2012 at 12:39 PM
    I don't think it's a big deal but I am sure the straight men in the locker room feel differently.
  • nathan
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    nathan

    June 17, 2012 at 8:57 PM
    I would be uncomfortable but id get over it.
  • Steve
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    Steve

    June 18, 2012 at 11:06 AM
    Yes - it would upset team cohesion. Its why we separate men and women's lockers rooms.
  • Boggy...
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    June 18, 2012 at 11:57 AM
    lol, gay people on a football team doesn't upset any kind of cohesion unless they're like hitting on people or perhaps acting so flamboyant that their behavior grates on the nerves of their teammates. But you and I know 99% of homosexual people are perfectly normal and would probably go out of their way to make their teammates feel comfortable. Gay people are accepted even in high school already, by the time you get to college and beyond its absolutely a non-factor unless you are stuck in that juvenile mentaility which luckily most people arent! Shallow bastards.
  • Boggy...
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    June 18, 2012 at 11:59 AM

    Have you people ever even been part of a TEAM, or have you just forgotten what comradery is like


  • Jake
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    Jake

    June 19, 2012 at 11:10 AM
    @Boggy Registrer - Are you serious? I doubt you have ever played on a football team before. While I agree that it shouldn't matter whether or not a player is gay so long as they conduct themselves appropriately, that is not the reality in most high schools across the country even now.
  • Max
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    Max

    June 22, 2012 at 11:10 PM
    I'm a former college football player and I'm sure that there have been & are many gay players in college and the pros. The ultra-macho attitude of football makes it hard to be an out gay player. Those pro football players who do come out - do so after they are retired. It's a very intense competetive setting - you're competing against other teams but you are also competing against your teammates for playing time or to be a starter. Also a lot of players and coaches, especially in college, are members of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, so they may not view your sexual-preferance positively. Being viewed as being different or as being weak affects your playing time, and in the pros - your income. I'm not gay but I'm definately for gay players to come out, to show that anyone can be an top athlete. But I don't think this will happen anytime soon - It would take a all-Pro or Hall-of-Fame talented out-gay player to permanently change the minds of fellow players and coaches.
  • warri...
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    warrior007

    June 25, 2012 at 5:52 PM
    A defensive back, I would think more like a wide reciever, maybe a tight-end, but for sure not anymore......
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