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A Sign That Junior Seau's Suicide Was More Selfless Than Selfish

by Jill Baughman on May 4, 2012 at 4:53 PM

brainIn tragic news out of the sports world this week, it was confirmed that Junior Seau, star linebacker on the San Diego Chargers, Miami Dolphins, and New England Patriots, did in fact commit suicide. With a self-inflicted gunshot wound to the chest, he left behind three children, whom he texted the day before, "I love you."

From the aftermath of the sad ending of this football legend's life comes news that his family will allow researchers to study his brain to check for any damage due to the concussions he may have sustained over his 20-year professional football career. What makes this whole situation even more heartbreaking is that, because this has happened to other players before him, Seau may have intentionally shot himself in the chest to preserve his brain for exactly this kind of study.

If there is anything his children can take away from their father's too-soon passing, it's that in his final, heartbreaking moments, he may have wished for other players to avoid his fate.

It's being reported that the family isn't even speculating about whether concussions led to his suicide, which no one can blame them for. They need time to mourn their loss and heal. But it seems that both Seau and his loved ones, despite these harrowing circumstances, want the same thing: "To help other individuals down the road."

ESPN reports that the forensic pathologist, Bennet Omalu, who first studied how chronic brain damage can be a factor some NFL players' deaths, will be participating in Seau's autopsy. He discovered chronic traumatic encephalopathy, or CTE, a disorder resulting from repeated head trauma -- which he discovered by studying the brains of deceased NFL players. We won't know if Seau has CTE anytime soon, as it will take four to six weeks to determine. 

But this whole story is just that much more heartbreaking if Seau was in a place to be so depressed to take his own life, but be cognizant enough that if he were to shoot himself in the chest, his brain could be studied so other players could benefit from it. Even though his children would probably give almost anything to spend one more day with their father, it might give them a tad bit of comfort to think that Seau, despite being entirely hopeless for his own life, wanted to help his peers and bring attention to such an important issue. It's just a shame that it had to come to this.

His death follows last month's suicide of former Atlanta Falcons safety Ray Easterling, as well as Chicago Bears safety Dave Duerson's suicide in 2011. If nothing is done to protect the players and give them support after they retire, I'm sure these guys won't be the last. That might have been the message Seau wanted to send in the very end.

What do you think of Seau's family letting researchers study his brain? Think there's a link between concussions and mental disorders?

 

Image via Liz Henry/Flickr 

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  • Lexi...
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    Lexi Jordan

    May 4, 2012 at 5:07 PM
    RIP Junior. I feel so awful for his family, especially his children!! I believe the family is definitely doing the right thing, donating his brain to science. All research is pointing to concussions cause degenerative brain disease and mental disorders, although it is still so early in research to definitively say. I believe the more and more research that is done it will prove just how damaging repeated brain injury is.
  • Alma45
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    Alma45

    May 4, 2012 at 6:30 PM
    Poor guy and his family. I think they're doing the absolute right thing. And I hope they gain some peace. It's so disheartening when someone feels they need to take their own life.
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    Gilroy Buller

    May 7, 2012 at 7:47 AM
    DON’T JUDGE! RIP Junior Seau!! My thoughts and prayers go out to Junior's family and friends. Even in his last moments he was able to help provide a big service to his peers and people in general by preserving his brain. I pray that many lessons be learned from his brain and the toll football had on it. Thanks to his family for donating his brain for science and the service it can provide to research and the damage concussions can cause on the human brain.
  • John B
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    John B

    May 30, 2012 at 10:22 AM
    As a person who has had many concussions myself I understand what these men have gone through I had my first on when I was twelve playing a gmae of sandlot football then I hade few more playing high school ball as well later on I raced motorcross and I had even more when I was 19 I went through a windshield in a car accident in 2005 a woman made a left turn in front of me on my motorcycle and I slammend into her at 50 mph I had three brain hemoraghes and of course a bigtime concussion my wife says I had changed after that one this past Jan 27th a guy came into my lane on the freeway and I slammed into the ground face first at 60 mph what happens to you is this you forget things , you will be in the middle of something and you will say to yourself what was I doing? but I would just laugh it off I would get lost going to a store that I have gone to a hundred times in a neighborhood that I have been living in my whole life sometimes getting disoreinted not knowing where I am at even spelling words so please forgive me if I mess up )I have been diagnosed with post concussion disorder and the ealy stages of dementia, these men at one time in thier lives felt they were indestructable and fearless and brave and now they are confused on whats going on with then and the hopelesness that comes with it sets in so I feel for these men and there familys let the flamining begin
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