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10 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before Having Kids

Posted by Julie Ryan Evans
on Feb 13, 2012 at 9:40 PM

screaming babyThere is plenty of sunshine and roses that comes with parenthood, but as any parent with an ounce of honesty will tell you, it's also the toughest gig you'll ever have. Sure, all of those family pictures your friends post on Facebook look like the stuff of fairy tales, but behind every shining little face is the truth: They will change your lives in ways you could never imagine, and not all of those ways are good.

So while clocks may be ticking and ovaries are aching for a little babe, it's best that people go into parenthood with their eyes wide open. Because the fact is not everyone can handle it nor should they attempt to do so. For some, it's just not the right time in their life, and waiting is a better option. For others, it should probably just be a big permanent never. To determine how prepared you are to become a parent, here are 10 very important questions you should ask yourself before becoming one:

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Pregnancy Awww!

Sisters Offer to Be Surrogates for Their Sibling & Get a Big Surprise

Posted by Michele Zipp
on Feb 10, 2012 at 12:06 PM

pregnant bellyWith all the horrific things that are in the news right now, I was so struck by this incredible story of three sisters who will forever be tied in a whole new way. Tanya Ratcliff was told that she could conceive a baby but her body was not able to carry it. In order to have a family, she would need a surrogate. Not an easy thing. She was at the fertility clinic with her sisters Tara Schamel and Cassie Ripp when she got this very sad diagnosis. But both Tara and Cassie offered to carry her baby with her implanted embryos made from her own egg and her husband Dan's sperm. 

Both super-duper amazing sisters underwent the necessary procedures of hormone injections (which is not easy either) hoping they would have success. They both became pregnant, but that is only surprise number one.

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Pregnancy Inspiring

Khloe Kardashian Is Lying to Herself About Infertility

Posted by Julie Ryan Evans
on Feb 9, 2012 at 11:04 AM

Khloe KardashianKhloe Kardashian is the favorite sister of many for a lot of reasons, but primarily because she's so honest and so relatable. She may a Kardashian, but she doesn't live in a fairytale, and she doesn't try to make us believe she does ... until it comes to her struggles with infertility.

She recently made some comments that sound so positive and just like what any good friend would tell her to boost her spirits. But they also don't ring especially true. She told People recently that she's relieved she's hasn't gotten pregnant yet.

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Baby LOL

5 Ways to Get the Most From Your Baby

Posted by Nicole Fabian-Weber
on Feb 1, 2012 at 11:21 AM

babyWhen I was 31, my husband and I picked up and moved across the country from Los Angeles to New York. The change was much-needed, but it was a strange time to move. We had an entire life in California. Jobs, a perfectly comfortable place to live, and mainly, friends.

We had a whole group of friends. It was our "crew." We always had plans on weekends, places to go for holidays, and generally, stuff to do. After living in New York for a year and half, of course, we've made friends. But we haven't made friends. No longer do we have set plans for Saturday nights, or another apartment that we spend boatloads of time at. We have people we go out for brunch or dinner with, and people we occasionally have a couple glasses of wine with.

But that's all about to change. 'Cause we've got a baby on the way. And everybody knows that babies come with all sorts of perks -- including being great bait for making friends.

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Baby Inspiring

Stunning Motherhood Site Shares Universal Joy of Moms Around the Globe (PHOTOS)

Posted by Michele Zipp
on Jan 26, 2012 at 12:11 PM

mother carrying child"Little Burden": A mother in China carries her child on her back. We often get wrapped up in the small stuff -- and for good reason. It's the small things that affect us in our day-to-day. But we also have to look beyond that. Beyond our neighborhood, farther than our state, outside our own country. Moms can learn from each other and show compassion for one another through our common bond: motherhood. We can put aside our beliefs (and judgements) to truly try to be in a another mom's shoes.

The International Museum of Women's newly launched exhibit MAMA: Motherhood Around the Globe allows us to do that. It's all online and has so many visually stunning examples of the many faces and facets of motherhood. You have to check out the photos and videos that I loved the most.

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Pregnancy

3 Big Ways Dr. Spock's Parenting Advice Has Changed

Posted by April Peveteaux
on Dec 30, 2011 at 10:15 AM

dr spock new edition differentDr. Benjamin Spock's ninth edition of Dr. Spock’s Baby and Child Care is here, new parents! So don't you fret about raising that baby on the way. Even though the eponymous child rearing expert died over a decade ago, his wife and apparently a very modern team of editors carry on, and we now have an updated book that tells parents everything they need to know about bringing up baby.

Forget your Sears, your Karp, your ladies who whisper at babies, Spock was the first parenting "expert" to tell parents to learn to trust themselves, and to care for their children rather than ignoring their needs. Also (and this is my favorite thing about the good doctor), Spock's philosophy was to guide, not demand. So it's information rather than advocating for a certain parenting style. Spock got that every parent and every child were different and had to make their own choices.

So, then, after all of that, what is so dramatically different about the ninth edition of Dr. Spock?

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Pregnancy

Camila Alves' Post-Baby Tradition Puts Moms First

Posted by Adriana Velez
on Dec 27, 2011 at 4:43 PM

camila alvesI think it's unanimous: We all have girl-crushes on Matthew McConaghey's new fiancee, Camila Alves. Former model, mom to their two delectable kiddies -- and did we mention she's not one to jump on the treadmill 10 seconds after she has a baby? Nope, unlike other celeb moms like Victoria Beckham, Camila was not in a hurry to shed the baby weight after having each of their children.

Camila believes in what Brazilians call "quarentena." It's actually practiced all over the world. What it means is that the mother spends time restoring her health and bonding with her baby for a little over a month. For Camila, it was 40 days. And it included no sex!

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Pregnancy

The 3 Rudest Things People Do to Pregnant Women

Posted by Aunt Becky
on Dec 27, 2011 at 9:29 AM

Being pregnant is pretty amazing, isn't it? The whole "glowing" thing kinda rules (if that happens to you - I only "glowed" after I vomited). Explaining why you're eating two cheeseburgers becomes a lot easier when you can say, "I'm eating for two!" And having a new life whirling around inside you, well, that's one of the most incredible feelings on the planet!

However, being pregnant comes with some pitfalls. Mainly, other people. Something about seeing a pregnant woman makes them think they can say and do anything they please.

Here are 3 of the rudest things people you know -- and people you don't -- will do while you're pregnant.

 

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Love & Sex

11 Things You Should Never Say to a Childless Couple

Posted by Michele Zipp
on Dec 22, 2011 at 12:02 PM

quiet please signBack when I was trying to conceive, my husband and I felt a lot of pressure to start a family from some relatives and friends. Often very well meaning family and friends, wondering when we were going to have a baby. Any person who has been trying to get pregnant knows what I'm talking about here -- it can be a difficult time. But it's not just those who want to have a baby who feel this way -- many childless couples get bombarded with the whys, the whens, and the how comes. It can be more annoying than a hemorrhoid. I mean, why can't two people enjoy being married without having kids in the mix?

Here is my list of things no childless couple ever wants to hear -- so try to never say them.

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Pregnancy

Pregnant Woman Lies Upside Down for 3 Months to Save Her Baby

Posted by Julie Ryan Evans
on Dec 22, 2011 at 10:40 AM

baby toesIt sounds unimaginable at first. After being told in her fifth month of pregnancy that she was at risk of miscarrying her daughter, Donna Kelly of the U.K. was given an unusual prescription. She could try checking into the hospital for the reminder of her pregnancy, which is a difficult enough sentence for anyone, but while there, she would have to lie upside down the entire time.

So she did. For three months, 24 hours a day, she lay upside down to eat, sleep, watch TV, and anything else one could do in that position. The only time she turned upright was to use the restroom.

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