Yesterday was the day for which Nur Suryani Mohd Taibi had been preparing. At eight months pregnant, she was an anomaly in the Olympic Games as she competed in the women’s 10-meter air rifle as the most pregnant Olympian ever. The world had followed her story -- some supportive and some not -- waiting to watch her compete.
So she aimed, she fired, and fulfilled her dreams. That doesn't mean she won gold -- not even close. In fact, she came in 34th out of 56 shooters. But she's not disappointed, nor does she blame the pregnancy for her performance, even though she told the Associated Press that the baby kicked three or four times during the event.
"It didn't put me off," she said. "I told her, ‘Behave yourself, be a good girl, be calm, and don’t move so much.’” She says the baby girl obeyed.
After all of the build up and anticipation, it would have been amazing to see her pull off a victory. What a story it would have been for the pregnant woman from Malaysia to show up all the other contestants and emerge victorious with a gold medal around her neck.
Unfortunately, it wasn't to be, but she still has an amazing story to tell -- especially to her daughter (who they've already named Dayana Widyan), who was there, still growing inside her, for the event. She said:
I did my best, but the range got the best of me today. My dream came true. I got to take part in the Olympics.
As the saying goes, winning isn't everything, and in her case this is especially true. She came, she saw, she proved that pregnant women can compete, and she set a wonderful example for her daughter with her determination and ability to see a dream through. I can't wait to see little Dayana watching her mother from the stands when she hopefully gets another chance at the Olympics in four years.
What stories will you tell your children about your pregnancy?
Photo via Anuj Biyani/Flickr


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Comments 12
Love this story. It shows that women do not have to choose fulfilling their "womanly duties" over fulfilling their dreams.
I'm torn on this: Great she fulfilled her dream. Great the baby 'cooperated' so she could concentrate. But, uh, what about the baby? Surely there was relentless target practice, so, I don't need to explain the very loud, sudden noises. I'd be curious to have her daughter get back to us with her thoughts, and the issues she might suffer from.
So by your logic, Debala, are pregnant women supposed to avoid any place where there could potentially be a loud noise? I'm sure that the athlete had many different doctors opinions before competing and that the baby won't be harmed in any way, shape, or form. Pregnant women (or women in general) do not have to give up their dreams in turn for having a family. Besides, sounds are quite muffled in the womb. Definitely a non-issue.
did you know ultrasounds are compareable to subway train as far as noise is concerned,debala?
This is truly a 2 thumbs up story.
cool I like inspiring posts like this!
I would tell my children that each of the pregnancies physically was draining! But the chance to feel them grow was amazing! I loved having them inside of me! The getting them outside of me... That part I wasn't too crazy about..
They are loud, maybe not as loud as live round rifles, but, I don't know. It isn't something I would do while pregnant. It's more than firing a gun we're talking about here: it's the rigors of a schedule, the adrenalin, diet, the competition. Different chemicals and hormones are being released. Is it dangerous? Maybe not. But it wouldn't be desirable for me.
If were 8 mos pregnant I would not be competing in the Olympics for the stress alone and being so close to the due date. I pursued my dreams and then some with my daughter. It's just the extreme nature of this scenario that troubles me. To each her own. I'm glad it worked out for her.
And fleurdelys3110 you're mischaracterizeing what I said. Anyway...