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Mom Gives Birth in Hospital Waiting Room With Devastating Results

by Mary Fischer on May 21, 2012 at 4:21 PM

hospital waiting roomGoing through labor and delivery only to wind up losing your baby at the end has got to be one of the most devastating experiences a mother can go through, as an English woman named Sara Proud knows all too well.

Sara went into labor and was taken to the hospital by her partner, Steven Yorke, but when they arrived, they were told to move into a waiting room instead of her being admitted into the hospital. They stayed in that room for 80 minutes, when Sara's labor progressed, and Yorke realized she needed help immediately. He went to find someone to assist, and while he was searching, Sara delivered a baby boy right there in the waiting room.

The poor baby was born with the umbilical cord wrapped around his neck, and eventually two midwives did take him away to try and bring him back to life. Sadly, they were unable to revive him, and he passed away -- all while his poor mother was still in the waiting room -- delivering her own placenta.

Oh. My. GOD. When I picture this poor woman lying (probably on the floor) of a HOSPITAL waiting room wondering why in the hell no one helped her, I just want to break down and cry. She must have been so scared for the health and safety of her baby -- and then to have to deliver her placenta all by herself? I can't even imagine.

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But the worst part of this story is the fact that Sara had no idea that baby Kyle had died until Steven told her the news. According to him, she's been unable to leave the house since coming home from the hospital, and both of them are absolutely heartbroken.

The couple has ordered an autopsy on baby Kyle to see whether or not getting proper medical attention would've given them what they expected when they checked into that hospital -- a happy and healthy baby boy. That's really all any parent wants -- and it's definitely what Sara and Steven deserved. My heart goes out to them -- and I only hope they can find some peace in the future.

What words of sympathy would you offer to this poor couple?

 

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Filed Under: birth stories, complications, delivery

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  • Michelle
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    Michelle

    May 21, 2012 at 4:25 PM
    One word: LAWSUIT. God, this poor couple. While no amount of money will bring their baby back, this hospital is obviously guilty of gross negligence.
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    organicyogalove

    May 21, 2012 at 4:25 PM

    I doubt that is why he died. 


  • Nessa...
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    Nessasmomma

    May 21, 2012 at 4:28 PM
    Thats awful :(
  • right...
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    rightside

    May 21, 2012 at 4:29 PM

    This is tragic, but not surprising, because it happened in England.  England has a national health care system...the same kind of system Obama is moving us toward in this country. 


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    threeforme157

    May 21, 2012 at 4:32 PM

    Rightside- I was going to make the same comment, yet another reason I want no part of the national health care system.  This is very sad.


  • jkm89
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    jkm89

    May 21, 2012 at 4:37 PM
    Just knew someone wouldn't be able to keep their mouths shut on this one. Because babies have never died from complications like this in our own hospitals, right?

    My heart goes out to this couple, no one should ever have to lose a child.
  • cmjaz
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    cmjaz

    May 21, 2012 at 4:38 PM
    I thought the exact same thing. This is exactly what we'll get with obamacare. BBC has a reality series about their emergency rooms and the lack of care is absolutely horrifying
  • MamaD...
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    MamaDee83

    May 21, 2012 at 4:41 PM
    I'm not asking to be fresh, I'm asking because I don't know the answer... How does having a national health care system make it so that something like this happens??
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    RhondaVeggie

    May 21, 2012 at 4:42 PM
    Well gee, I guess they haven't implemented that whole one midwife per mother policy yet.
  • Todd...
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    Todd Vrancic

    May 21, 2012 at 4:42 PM

    There are no words.


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