The way my doctor talked about the 3-D ultrasound, I thought it was going to be the pregnancy test version of an IMAX movie.
Boy, was I disappointed.
My husband and I had visions of being able to see our baby in sharp, three-dimensional detail, of feeling as though we could reach out and touch her. We thought we'd come away with a really clear picture of her face, her features, her little hands and feet.
What we got instead was like something out of a freaky sci-fi flick. Or at the very least, a futuristic comic book.
So I get that the point of these, which are usually done around 20 or 21 weeks, is to make sure your baby is anatomically correct and developing properly. It's not to entertain the parents-to-be. But still.
The upside: We did get a super close-up view of her brain, her heart (all four chambers!), her lungs, and her kidneys. I feel intimately acquainted with them now, actually. Like maybe I could even pick them out of a lineup.
I also know what she'd look like if she were a skeleton. Or getting an X-ray taken.
But the cute little sonogram photos that we dreamed of, the ones we'd show her years later, all the while marveling at how similar they looked to her actual baby pictures? Didn't happen.
I did get a great shot of her arm bone though. I mean, really great.
The other hitch: Our little princess turned out to be camera shy. She was lying on her stomach for the first part, meaning the ultrasound tech couldn't get a good screen shot of some of her organs. It also meant that she (the tech, not the baby) jiggled the ultrasound thingy around menacingly, muttered a lot, and generally got very hot and bothered. The words "little brat" came out of her mouth at one stage. Very nice. And effective if what you're trying to create is a soothing, pleasant atmosphere for the patient.
In order to get baby to move to a more convenient position, I had to stop in the middle, pace around the waiting room, drink water, and do a couple of jumping jacks in the bathroom (I'm not kidding, I swear).
When I came back, the situation was even more dire. Poor little girl was curled up in a ball, her legs thrown over her head as one does when striking the plow pose in yoga. Her hands were covering her face. She was clearly telling the paparazzi, "No more pictures!"
I don't think she liked the 3-D ultrasound any better than we did.
Needless to say, her cowering only led to more muttering and more choice words directed at her, an innocent little unborn child. I wondered if the tech would start throwing things. I wanted to ask if I could choose a different one, but I kept my mouth shut.
In the end, all the requisite photos were taken (some with the help of the doctor on duty, brought in to tackle the "most challenging ultrasound of the day"). Everything was in place and where it should be. All was right with the universe.
We just don't have the fantastic pictures to prove it.
Did you get good photos at your 3-D ultrasound?
Image via abbybatchelder/Flickr
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Comments (23)
Eh, it was ok. The anatomy scan was mostly done in regular 2D mode, then they flipped the switch to 3D at the end just of a few checks and the photo. My DD had her arm in front of her head, so the tech had to act fast to get a pic of her face. It wasn't perfect, but it was cute! I guess I kind of knew what to expect. Some people do get really clear photos, though!
That tech sounds like a real winner! sorry you didn't get the photos you wanted, there will be lots of real life ones in 5 months
You are aware that photo posted is a 2D u/s, right? In my experience, I've personally seen a lot of really, really neat 3 & 4D u/s's, BUT, when it came time for my own, it was not was I had invisioned, either. Granted, I did wait 'til like 34 (I think it was) weeks so Mr Boy was bunched up in there alot more than he wouldve been had I went in the 20 something week range. And, he was very camera shy, too. People probably think we are nuts saying that... but you saw it too... we know 1st hand, its true! It happens. *shrug* So yeah, I was a little disappointed in my own 3D u/s but I am still glad to have tried it out and have those memories.
Oh, sorry I got so sidetracked with my own experiences... I forgot to comment elsewhere... WHAT THE EFF KINDA TECH CALLS YOUR BABY A "LITTLE BRAT"?!?!?!? That is just plain wrong on so many levels and he or she would be damn lucky if I just sat there and took that crap. That makes me so mad!
Didnt have one, reallly really wanted one but insurance wouldnt cover it unless the dr. prescribed it and dint want to pay out of pocket so we skipped on it. We still got cute 2D u/s pics tho! DD is almost 3 and they are still hanging in there with our family photo's!!
I think what you had was the 2D not the 3D. At my 20 week check up we only got a 2D ultrasound you had to pay extra for the 3D. My DD was really stubborn she had her legs crossed so we couldn't find out what her sex was. The ultrasound tech was pushing on my stomach making me cough and do other things to get her to move and she finally did. But if my ultrasound tech caled my baby a brat i'd flip! Thats just rediculous!!! I would have told the doctor how rude she was!
well it raises the heat in the womb and it's loud to baby. Your little one just wasn't interested! smart cookie!
I ahve had 3D ultrasound with both my pregnancies and had amazing pictures both times. Techs love to see me walk through the door, for some reason ultrasounds are super clear on me.
I had an OK one. My son had his head against my placenta so it was hard to get a decent shot. Boy was he mad though, i have a great pic of him scowling.