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Jessica Alba Clears Up Pregnant Sex Question (VIDEO)

by Julie Ryan Evans on July 28, 2011 at 8:59 PM

Jessica AlbaDespite her glamorous Hollywood lifestyle, when it comes to pregnancy, Jessica Alba is just like many of us -- worried. We fret about the foods we eat, the air we breathe, and anything else we've heard may cause harm to the little one we're entrusted with bringing into this world. While appearing on Jay Leno this week, the stunning Alba voiced an extremely common fear -- pregnant sex.

Alba asked sex educator Sue Johanson, who was also a guest on the show, "As someone who's in the later stage of pregnancy, is there any way to harm the baby during [sexual] intercourse?"

Johanson was swift, certain, and colorful with her answer.

"That baby is in there and that baby ain't going nowhere until it's ready. That uterus wall is just like that," Johanson said, knocking the wooden arm of a chair. I never thought of it like that (and I'm not sure I want to), but it's good to know it's tough.

She didn't stop there. She went on to illustrate with her hands: "With intercourse, the penis butts up against the cervix, and the cervix is smiling." See there, if you or your partner is worried about sex late in pregnancy, just think of your cervix smiling ... though don't think of Johanson saying it is, because that was just creepy (see video below).

I'm pretty sure Alba's husband, Cash Warren, would like to buy the lady a drink, however.

I admit I was scared of pregnant sex, especially at the end. It just seemed like too much going on in one space, and I just didn't want to risk anything after previous pregnancy complications. I was also tired, swollen, and weighed 2,000 pounds (or at least felt like I did), which didn't help. Had I only known I could make my cervix smile, I might have done differently.

Are you/were you scared of pregnant sex?


Image via aoltv.com

Filed Under: pregnancy health, pregnant celebrities, pregnant sex & relationships

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  • Octob...
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    Octobersmom

    July 29, 2011 at 10:06 AM

    I was never scared of pregnant sex just not in the mood for it LOL


  • halli...
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    hallieballie

    July 29, 2011 at 10:06 AM

    great advice, except for those with preterm labor in which sex can cause more dilation and contractions too early and then you are at risk of having a preemie baby.  I wish people would point that out, we aren't all textbook.


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    andiecheyenne

    July 29, 2011 at 11:07 AM

    nope. my sex drive went out the roof and still is (I'm almost 35 weeks) and I learned in my high school parenting class that the baby is perfectly safe in the uterus and unless you're high risk you can have sex up until your water breaks. DF is kinda ehhh about it, but we still have sex every once in a while.


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    Kati Lunceford

    July 29, 2011 at 12:33 PM

    I was ALWAYS in the mood with my first and only pregnancy! I think I scared my husband, but I wasn't like that before I got pregnant. 


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    hutchfam2007

    July 29, 2011 at 3:23 PM

    I wasnt scared of it, I knew well that it was safe. But that does not mean I was in the mood for it! I couldnt manicure my toes, shave my legs or even see my vagina (gross) and Im not even going to start with the yeast infections!! I did feel sexy though even through all that. Hubs LOVED my pregnant body and the confidence that gave me made our sex life pretty good most of the time during pregnancy.


  • Rumsita
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    Rumsita

    July 29, 2011 at 5:20 PM

    True, in certain cases it is not advisable, but in the majority of pregnancies it is perfectly safe, and can sometimes help bring about labor.  Worked that way for me.  18 hours post-sex, my water broke on my due date.


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    angevil53

    July 29, 2011 at 11:54 PM

    i love sue! she's great!


  • mama_ang
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    mama_ang

    August 1, 2011 at 11:40 AM

    Enjoy as much pregnant sex as you can....it is awesome.


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    capixy

    August 3, 2011 at 2:37 PM
    So, if you're on your hands and knees to avoid tummy squish... is your cervix frowning? ;) I am curious as to why Alba hadn't discussed her concern with her own doctor prior to this. Isn't this baby number two for her?
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