When you're pregnant, you go to the doctor (or midwife) ... a lot. By the last month or so, when you're doing weekly and sometimes twice-weekly OB appointments, it becomes what you plan your week around.
All this health care comes at a price, though, and it's a price many of us are sheltered from. Both times, my insurance didn't even charge a co-pay for prenatal appointments and covered the entire hospital bill. I knew I was lucky to have such great health insurance; it made my pregnancies much more worry-free. But not everyone shares that good fortune.
Blogger Casey Mullins, of Moosh in Indy, is one such person: She's currently facing her second pregnancy without any health insurance. She recently shared her story with Pundit Mom and The Stir writer, Joanne Bamberger.
After years of infertility, Casey and her husband found out she was pregnant again this past August. Here's the catch: Her husband's job doesn't offer benefits, and since he's an attorney, he makes too much money to qualify them for any currently available public health care programs. Yes, that's right -- not all lawyers are rich! And once they pay their enormous student loan payments, there's not a lot left to live on, and certainly not enough to pay for health insurance. Health insurance which, I might add, no one will sell her now that she's pregnant.
She found a midwife, who will see her for a flat fee of $3,000, and a hospital, which will accept another $3,000 for delivery up front. Which would be great, if there were no complications. Unfortunately, Casey suffers from hyperemesis gravidarum, also known as the mother of all pregnancy nausea; think morning sickness, but really really bad and all day long.
She's able to get care from a clinic, but that means a hefty cash payment, and she has had to often forgo the IV hydration that helps her survive the severe nausea.
Joanne makes a great argument for health care, and I'll say this: this is a couple that did everything right. They went to school, got married, and have made sacrifices so she can stay at home with their child. They live simply and stick to a budget. I don't understand how it's somehow the end of American democracy to make sure people like this can catch a freakin' break.
Do you think pregnant women should be denied health insurance?
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Comments (7)
I have paid cash for the last 6 pregnancies, and am doing so now. I didn't have insurance that covered it. It can be done. I am paying cash for my current pregnancy, and hopefully will be reimbursed for at least a portion this time with our current insurance. I do use a midwife, but NOT because of insurance issues.
My guess is that even those that think insurance should be provided would say not for me, because I have chosen to have lots of babies.
I was denied insurance by the state of oregon as well, apparently my hubby makes enough for a 5 person family even tho our bills are closer to 1000 more than we make because we have to have health care for our kids. Its stupid that they can deny you coverage. Years ago when I was prego with my first, WA wouldnt deny you if you were prego that was the golden ticket for it, but they dropped you down to just family planning after the kid was born but the kdi was covered, it was great. Stupid Oregon. . . wait dont I pay money for this shit??? Then who are they to tell me I cant use it???!!!
Ugh. Democracy? When was the last time you said the Pledge of Alligience missy???
That being said I recently birthed my second child with the lack of assistance from Health Insurance. What I think is that our health care should be affordable for EVERYONE and NOT based around whether or not someone can afford health insurance. Why the hell should I have to go through a third party for my health care, especially for something as completely routine as pregnancy?
Maternity, newborn and toddler care is 100% covered by our insurance, however, we chose to pay 100% out of pocket for a homebirth with a midwife. This is one instance where "free" is just not worth it.
And I totally agree with you ethans_momma06 about the ridiculousness of having to pay a third party for anything. Love it.
every pregnant women here gets insurance no questions asked our states trying to lower abortion/premi/mortality rates in babies with money issues
Ugh. That sucks. I was uninsured when I first got pregnant. Luckily, I qualified for medicaid and in Alaska it covers direct entry midwives and birth center or home births. Now I'm insured with Tricare (military insurance) and it will cover all pregnancy/birth related costs, but depending on where we live, we may just pay out of pocket anyway so I can have a home birth and a midwife.