Pregnancy Fetish: When Men Find You Sexier Pregnant


sexy pregnant bellyAt no point during my pregnancy did I feel sexy.

Like an elephant minus the trunk and the extra set of legs, yes.

Like a MILF? Oh hell no people.

But every time you start feeling like a giant wrapped around a bowling ball, remember the pregnancy fetishists.

You know, the guys who think you're one swelling mound of sexiness only when you have, um, a swelling mound in front of you.

Where does one find one of these men?

Surprisingly, everywhere. I worked with a guy who was obsessed with the Dixie Chicks' Natalie Maines during the nine months when she carried son Jackson.

Otherwise, he had no use for her.

And the Internet abounds with guys looking for pictures of preggos nekkid (link is SFW) and clothed. There are guys who like to dress up like a pregnant woman and guys who just want to see a big ol' belly to get off.

As a once-pregnant woman, I can't say I get it. I remember cankles. And stretchmarks. And puking.

And forget what the orgasmic birth folks tell you -- there's nothing sexy about poop and blood on the delivery table.

Not to mention the big one ... another man mostly likely got her pregnant. Which means you're fetishizing the product of another couple's unions.

Although, come to think of it, that's what porn is all about.

Any way you look at it ladies, it's always nice to know someone finds us dead sexy even when we feel like dead weight.

Do you feel sexy?


Image via 3Neus/Flickr

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RanaA... RanaAurora

Actually, I did.  I never worried about my gut sticking out or if my shirt was showing belly rolls.  I really enjoyed how I felt about my looks while pregnant.

Funny story... when I was pregnant with Rowan, a co-worker/fellow Navy guy of my husband's was at a Navy ball we attended.  He told me, his girlfriend and my husband how hot I was... apparently he had a pregnant girl fetish -- the catch?  He HATES kids.

jeann... jeannesager

@ Rana -- talk about a guy who thinks with his other head!

minim... minimom424

I felt sexy! I loved being big and pregnant. I felt feminine. I'm excited to experience my baby belly again, as I recently found out I am pregnant with baby number two, right now!

Kimberly Virga

With my son, who is almost 2, I felt sort of sexy for a little bit; I was told constantly by guys that I "glowed"; and I have to admit, filling out a dress nicely and having my skin clear up amazingly was addicting for the maybe two months that THAT period lasted... However, I am now 6 mos pregnant with our daughter, and it's the total opposite. Acne city, carrying really low and weird, etc. I do have to say though, when I, say, run to the food store or something sans hubby and my son, I regularly have guys stop and check me out. It shocked me at first, but it's true; some men really do find it sexy. This time, my husband finds me sexier, than the first time... it's weird.

xavie... xavierlogan09

my so thought i was sexy when my breasts got bigger. i didn't think i was sexy at all. i had circles under my eyes from never getting sleep and i was always throwing up. my brother is one of those guys who find pregnant women sexy. i didn't get alot of looks from men when i was pregnant. mainly elderly ladies asking me how i was doing being pregnant.

nonmember avatar Monzie

I posted several photos of myself on Flickr when I was pregnant with my first baby, so long-distance friends and family could track my expanding belly. Keep in mind these were strictly casual, fully-clothed snapshots I'd taken of myself in my bathroom mirror. I noticed much later that a bunch of strangers had actually added my pictures to their "Favorites." I shudder to think what some of them might have been doing to themselves while looking at my innocent little preggie pics. Ew!

And to answer your question: No, I didn't feel particularly sexy when I was pregnant the first time, nor am I feeling it much now. (Although, to be fair, I'm only 14 weeks along and it's difficult to feel sexy when you're mostly just trying not to barf all day long...)

bsang... bsangggxo

i did,only because i was ALL baby !

Poste... PosterOfAGirl

I didn't with my previous pregnancy, but I was horribly overweight before. This time around I'm a very healthy weight and can't wait for my belly to start popping out, I think I'll feel much sexier this time around. It doesn't hurt that my husband is one of those guys that thinks pregnant women are the sexiest thing on earth. He says it's the most womanly a woman can be, which I don't think he's wrong there.

Melan... MelanieLouise

I'm soooo excited to have a big belly again! I do feel amazingly sexy and beautiful. My hair gets longer, faster, my nails always grow out perfectly, my eyes get more green. It's honestly the best I've ever felt about myself, and then to know that I'm growing a child in there? Beautiful doesn't even begin to cover it.

MamaV... MamaVicki26

I only felt sexy In the beginning of my pregnancy, when I was 3 & 4 months pregnant. When I was 1& 2 months pregnant, I felt and looked like crap from no sleep and being sick all the time. Now Im 36 weeks pregnant and I feel like a Hippo and I look like Humpty Dumpty, haha! Im very short and petite and people tell me all the time how cute and good I look with my baby bump, it's so nice to hear this, especially coming from a stranger. My fiance tells me all the time how sexy and beautiful I look while pregnant, so that makes me feel even more better about my self. Once my baby is born, I am going to miss my baby belly so much! 

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