"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

Some men aren't into sex toys. Some men are. Those that are tend to like them because it's sort of like having a threesome without the complications. Sort of. Some women really get off by using sex toys -- why not make sure the woman is satisfied? But Lana's* husband Will* buys her sex toys because he doesn't want to have sex with her. She's not happy. Let's let her explain ....

Since most moms, including me, use a smartphone to help keep them organized and connected, why not use it for other important things too?

Like sex.

No, I'm not talking about putting it on vibrate and sticking it in your pocket. There are actual a myriad ways you can use your phone to improve your love life.

As a sex book author, it's not surprising that I get a lot of sex questions from people. Why yes, it's as awkward as it sounds.

But I also happen to be a mom of four kids with a husband who travels a lot, so many of the questions I get have to do with trying to fit sex in. I suppose if I can do it, then I must have the answer for them, even if they only have one or two kids.

So if you're wishing for more sex in your relationship or you've got a partner bugging you for more, here are my five tips for fitting sex in.

Remember that scene in Juno when she goes to the abortion clinic, and the reception offers her boysenberry-flavored condoms, and says they make her boyfriend’s junk taste like pie? That always made me giggle.

Although I’ve never used them, I can understand the appeal of flavored condoms. Hey, safety first, and if you’re going to do that, some flavor other than K-Y might make the experience more, shall we say, appetizing.

As it turns out, you can get condoms in almost every flavor imaginable -- including bacon. That’s right, the company J&D’s Foods recently launched bacon condoms. With that inspiration, I set out to find the wackiest flavored condoms on the market. 

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Besides being one of the most successful, buzzworthy, and oh yeah, X-rated books of 2012, Fifty Shades of Grey is a CASH COW. Products based on the books have been popping out of the woodwork for months now, so it's really no surprise that there's now a Fifty Shades sex toy line from Lovehoney, which will be available in the U.S. on April 8. What is especially intriguing, however, is that this line is the official one -- developed with E.L. James!

Yup, Lovehoney "worked closely with E.L. James to make sure the stylish, high quality range perfectly recreates the items used by Ana and her billionaire lover Christian Grey." She's even said of it, "This range is what I always imagined while I was writing Fifty Shades of Grey. I’m so excited that the toys I described in the books have come to life and can now be enjoyed around the world." Hot! Erika even let Lovehoney use some key phrases from Christian and Ana's story ...

With hometown dates coming up next week, things are really getting down to the wire for Bachelor Sean Lowe. He's definitely falling for more than one of the four ladies who are left, which makes choosing one of them to be his wife a lot more difficult.

Sean is different from any of the other Bachelors we've seen for several reasons, but the whole "born again virgin" thing is probably what sets him apart the most. While most dudes take full advantage of every fantasy suite date, if you know what I mean -- Sean won't be getting down and dirty with any of his remaining women.

And that may come as a huge bummer to front runner Catherine Giudici, who admits liking things a bit on the kinky side in the bedroom.

Just when I thought that maybe we're all over the "50 Shades of Grey" craze, here comes Valentine's Day and of course everyone is talking about it again.

Plus, I won't lie. I'm dying to see who they cast in the "50 Shades of Grey" movie.

So since it looks like Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey are here to stay, at least for a while, here are some ways you can use their amazing sex life to inspire your own this Valentine's Day.

"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

Jenny and Roger* are 30-somethings who have been married for over 10 years with three kids and haven't lost their spark for each other. These two have more sex toys than they can use in one evening ... and they may have even tried. Jenny even used to sell sex toys at parties and did very well because of her rave reviews and experience knowing which sex toy is the best for whatever you are into. But she's starting to worry. How much is too much? Did her and her husband's sex toy use (abuse?) create a sort of third (fourth, fifth) party in their bedroom? She fears it may be driving a bit of a wedge between their intimacy. I'll let Jenny explain.