I'm not going to lie, when I heard that Ryan Gosling might play Christian Grey in Fifty Shades of Grey, it was pretty much the best day of my life. Just the thought of this man being domineering, sexual, and you know, shirtless with jeans hanging off his hips for an hour and 30 minutes -- well, let's just say I was on board with that idea.

Another thing I'm on board with? Ryan opening up about his fantasies. I mean, if we're going to picture this man as Christian Grey, we've got to hear more about his sexual side, right? Right.

Well, Ryan revealed his secret fantasy in a recent interview -- and let me tell you, it's pretty unexpected and shocking. First of all, it doesn't even involve me ...

Everyone assumes that sex after a baby is a myth, kinda like how people say that once you get married, the sex goes away, or the claim that there are actually fat free foods that taste good.

But having sex after having a baby isn't a myth at all. People with babies are having sex right this very minute, believe me!

Feeling sexy after giving birth can be a little tricky, but it's not impossible! So what are we waiting for? Let's get you in the mood!

Most of us love a good romp in the sack -- it's fun to get butt-naked and down and dirty. The problem is, sometimes, when we've been with the same partner, we find ourselves in the same old position having the same old sex every couple of days. Is it good? Sure. Satisfying? Yes. But is it all there is?

NO. You can get creative. But guess what? You can also get in shape while having sex! Seriously!

Here are some ways to make sex a body-sculpting workout. Bye-bye, gym!

It's every parent's worst (superficial) nightmare - some day, you fear, your kids will walk in on you while you're having sex.

Maybe they want a drink of water or a snack.

Maybe it's the toddler screaming or the high-schooler telling you he's going out for a while. Who knows how, but you know that one day, it could happen to you.

And that trauma lasts a LIFETIME for a kid. I know this to be true because *shudders* it happened to me when I was a small one.

Trust me, there's very little that's as bad as seeing your parents having sex. Makes me wish I could bleach my eyes or something.

Here are some tips for getting intimate WITHOUT scarring your kids for life.

Remember when having a sex tape was about the worst thing celebrities had to worry about surfacing once they rose to super-stardom and got their act together and fell in love for real? Yeah, those were the good old days -- or at least they were for Kim Kardashian, who is now rumored to have had a threesome in 2001 with a porn star and another woman.

Supposedly Kim attended a swingers party back when she was 20 years old, which ultimately led to her having sex with porn actor Julian St. Jox and a woman named Emily Ann. Of the alleged encounter with Kim, St. Jox says, "She was wearing a tight miniskirt and tank top and designer shoes and bag. From afar she looked gorgeous. She had a great body and seemed bright ... [she] something special about her: a je ne sais quoi."

Huh. I guess that kinda sounds like Kim.

A judge may lose her job because she posed in sexually explicit photos sporting bondage gear.

Jack King took 150 photos of his wife Lori Douglas, a chief judge in Canada, dressed in Fifty Shades of Grey worthy outfits. Her colleagues were none-the-wiser until he posted the pics to the adult website DarkCavern.com without her knowledge. Soon after, everyone became interested in what Douglas was wearing under her robes.

We all have kind of bizarre myths we believe about sex, and the way sex is portrayed in movies, TV shows, and books doesn't help. Even those awesome conversations with your girlfriends after a couple glasses of wine are good for making you laugh until you cry -- but maybe not so good for exchanging factual information.

This is why we need Dr. Logan Levkoff. She's all about the facts and using them to make your sex life better. In this latest episode of Mom Ed: In The Bedroom, she invites moms Catherine (one of our fabulous editors here at The Stir!) and Jill to test their knowledge of common sex myths.

Even if you think you're pretty smart about sex, you're sure to learn something that will surprise you. Check out the video after the jump. 

“Sex Confessions” is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, and all will turn you on (well most). You might want to sit down for this.

Today's sex confession comes from Jim*, who has been married to Karen* for five years but a total of 10 years if you count how long they were dating. They have a happy marriage. Jim wants to stress that he is an extremely satisfied husband -- and that includes their sex life. He is totally in love with Karen, but there is something she doesn’t know about him. Back before they even knew each other, Jim had sex with a guy. He has no interest in men anymore. But he fears telling him wife. Read on to hear more of Jim’s confession.