We all want to feel sexy. That's not even in question. It's especially full of the awesome to feel sexy for someone you're digging on.

So what actually turns guys on -- and what turns them off? What are some ways you can be extra sexy for your guy? What do men truly find attractive?

Here are some tips to help you figure out what gets those mysterious men going.

Sex, especially when you have it with the same person every time, well, it can get a little ... old. Sometimes, you gotta dig deep and figure out how to spice up your sex life. I have a suggestion for you: add a little kink to your vanilla sex!

Here are some easy ways to "get kinky with it" (it takes two).

Poor Ryan O'Neal! Can this guy get more sad? Yesterday, the once-smokin' hot actor went on Today and admitted he was a bad father. The day before that, he had a panic attack. And he's got prostate cancer. I wrote about how heartbreaking all of this is because Ryan used to be super-hot in the 1970s! I know that's shallow, but whatever.

But now Ryan is redeeming himself. Although he has said that he and his longtime girlfriend, Farrah Fawcett, used to get into physical fights, Ryan has some excellent marriage advice! Yes, I'm serious. Read on ...

We still don’t really know if Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis are a couple who are, you know, actually dating, or if they are, in the typical Hollywood parlance, "just friends." They've certainly been spending a lot of time together lately. But Kunis has adamantly denied that they are romantically involved. She’s said: "It’s absurd! A friend is a friend." Okay, a friend-friend, Mila, or a FWB? Huh? Yet insiders say that Kutcher has long "held a torch" for Mila, his former That '70s Show co-star. One dished:

He was so in love with [Mila] for a while when they worked together. He thought she was a goddess, was always talking about how beautiful she is.

It's easy to get stuck in a sex rut -- you always have sex in this one position in this one place and it's always the same. Great, but the same. Sometimes, you need to spice it up a little bit, change your routines, and get down and dirty in other places.

Here are some of my favorite sexy places around the house!

Sometimes, after a long day of work or caring for children, the very idea of sex can make you feel even MORE tired. But sex factors in to so many parts of a relationship that it's important to keep the spark alive.

Here are some easy sexy tips for a sexy night.

There are a TON of myths about sex and sexuality.

Sex myths happen because people who don't know any better pass on half-right information as total fact. Or they make them up to sound smarter. Plus, many "sex experts" (sexperts?) contradict each other. So it's not surprising that so many untruths about sex exist.

Here are some popular sex myths, decoded.

Let's face it, ladies, when it comes to sex, we have a lot to learn, especially if we've been with the same partner for a long time. And who better to give women sex tips than men?

(Answer: No one.)

So here we go, ladies. More sex tips for women from men.