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    Ready for the most obvious piece of non-news you'll hear all day? Here goes: straight women are not having orgasms during sex. Shocking, right? A new study has confirmed what most heterosexual women have known since the day we lost our virginity: just because we're doing the deed -- enjoying it, even -- doesn't necessarily mean we're sealing the deal at the very end.

    I want to blame men. Really, I do. Because, gosh darnit, why is it that they don't know the vagina inside and out, despite the fact that several women I know wouldn't be able to point out the clitoris to you on a diagram? While I agree that any man who outright refuses to give his women oral sex should be rounded up and shipped off to vagina boot camp, I think we're lying to ourselves if we don't admit that WE are the sole reason we can't orgasm 100 percent of the time.

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    I'm always on the lookout for cool new sex toys to pop into rotation, but let's be honest: Most of them pretty much look exactly the same, save for the color and some variance in size.

    But that's not the case with this fairly new breed of sex toys that I've found, and boy am I glad. Very, very glad. Turns out, your next orgasm might be right at your fingertips. Literally.

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    There are some people who are naturally magnetic, who possess a star quality that makes others want to pay attention. And then there are people who go to great lengths to get attention. The latter, often feels unauthentic, contrived, annoying. That's how I'm feeling about the band ADAM who just released (perhaps in a few different ways) a new music video for their song Go to Go.

    The video features the members of the all-female Dutch band having an orgasm as they sing. Yeah.

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    Believe it or not, I'm a big fan of pornography, which tends to make most moms give me a raised eyebrow or a judgmental look. I'm certainly not a porn addict by any means, I enjoy watching for my own pleasure and education.

    After all, what better way to improve your moves in the bedroom?

    I've found is that many moms don't like porn because they're watching the wrong kind. So, here are my two suggestions for finding porn that will work for you. And trust me, it really does work.

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    What do you get when you combine lasers with female pleasure? I'm not talking about making out with your boyfriend at a laser show (although that's fun, too). I'm talking about the newest innovation in sex toys: The Afterglow Vibrator, an intimate massager that uses pulsed infrared lights to bring you to ecstasy. Or that's the claim, anyway. What started out as a treatment for pelvic pain and overactive bladder disease led to the happy discovery that carefully directed lasers can be really, really arousing for women. 




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    I hear way too many moms complaining about how they don't want to have sex or how their sex lives are boring and well, I don't really have much sympathy because these days, there's just no excuse.

    There are all sorts of fun things you can do in the bedroom to spice things up that you're probably just not willing to try. And hey, we tell our kids "you can't say you don't like it if you don't try it" when they turn their nose down to a new food.

    Guess what, moms? The same thing applies to sex. So loosen up that darn chastity belt and stop being such prudes.

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    Being a mom with a vibrator is a double-edged sword. Sure, now that you've got such a full (and often stressful) day, you need that release of a little solo time more than ever. It's crucial.

    But you've also got bright, curious tykes running around your dwelling. This can make keeping anything truly hidden virtually impossible. What's a lady in need of a little release to do?

    Invest in a vibrator that does the job when it has to and stays nice and discreet during its off hours, that's what. And never fret, frustrated ladies! We're here to help!

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    I don't know one sexually active adult woman who hasn't faked it a few times. For some reason, that fact always seems to surprise men. I suppose they can't bear the thought of their sexual prowess not doing the job. Of course, such a conundrum merits studies to figure out just why women would do such a thing. The latest appears in the Journal of Sexual Archives and actually claims that one reason women fake orgasms is for their own pleasure. Huh? What?

    According to these scientist, pretending to reach the height of arousal actually turns us on. Sorry. I have to call b**s*** on this one. The survey of single women in their 20s also suggested that women did this to make their man feel better, but it's not always just about him. We are far more complex than that. Here is what our informal poll unearthed about what woman are really thinking when they decide to pull a Meg Ryan a la When Harry Met Sally.

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    Forget using realistic models -- sex expert Jennifer Berman proved on Conan this week that it's so simple to find a woman's G-Spot, she could demonstrate how to do so using a PVC pipe! Berman made host Conan O'Brien visibly nervous when she pulled out the gigantic apparatus and proceeded to challenge him to demonstrate how he could find what many believe is the most erogenous spot on (or in) a woman's body. He refused to do so, which makes us a little suspicious, but no matter -- Jennifer got right to work and showed the men in America how they could make their women very happy this Valentine's Day weekend.

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    I have a horrible disability that was inflicted on me by my closest loved ones and celebrated with a bottle of wine. And it was my people, the Jews, who invented it.I can't share the details of this problem with my parents or best friends, but I'm going to share it with you. Are you sure you're ready? OK...

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