My girlfriends and I have very strong opinions on this topic.
One of my friends loves to watch certain sexy videos with her husband. Another would die if she had to look at the stuff--but she doesn't mind if her boyfriend does. Still another friend is offended by any and all pornographic material--she doesn't even approve of movie sex scenes.
I can see each of their points.
My personal take is that porn is sometimes too much. But I do enjoy some conventional rated-R movies--and I do not watch them for their plots.
CafeMoms recently asked this question in the Just For Fun Answers section: How many watch porn with their husbands or boyfriends? Here are a few responses:
- "I do. We always end up having great sex."
- "Once in a blue moon."
- "No. It makes me feel insecure about my body. We don't watch it separately or together."
What do you think? Would you watch porn with him? Would you watch it by yourself?