For most couples, if one of you is not in the mood, the default is no sex. But why? Who ever said that both of you have to be in the mood at the same time in order to have sex? Are you making a big mistake when you pass up an invitation to get intimate? Hoo boy -- YES. A huge mistake.
Think about it this way: It's not about putting out just because it's expected or to keep the peace. "A woman needs to take responsibility for figuring out how to get herself to want sex more often," says sex and sensuality coach Rebekah Beneteau. If you haven't seen it already, Michele Weiner-Davis' brilliant TEDx talk on the sex-starved marriage will bring about some major ah-hah moments for both of you.
Here are some compelling reasons why you should have that romp in the hay with your husband even if you're not feeling frisky.
What do you do when one of you is in the mood for sex but the other isn't?
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