When a marriage ends, there isn't usually one thing that does it. Typically, it's a long time in coming. Years and years of problems finally come to a head, and the couple ultimately decides to call it quits. But what are the signs you have reached that point of no return?
"People are often under the misconception that if their relationship is really 'right,' it should not feel difficult or challenging," says Elizabeth Sullivan, a marriage and family therapist based in San Francisco. "This is not true. Difficult feelings or a period of stuckness do not mean your marriage is over."
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Anyone who has been married for any amount of time knows that. There are good days and bad days. Eventually there are good years and bad years.
But when can we be sure that our relationship is really and truly beyond saving? How do we know when to cut our losses and call our lawyers? Here are 10 signs a marriage is really over.
Have you ever had the feeling your marriage was over? What were the signs and were you able to work through it?