"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.
We often go to great lengths to have sex. There is the prep work like shaving, lighting candles, getting some mood music going, and then there are more extremes like getting a babysitter for the kids so you can get hotel room and really let loose and enjoy each other. But Stephanie* and Alex* feel that hotel room is completely unnecessary. They hire a sitter for their three children, but then they head out on a desolate road and have sex in their car. Talk about hot! I'll let Stephanie explain.
Alex and I have done the whole hire a sitter and head to a hotel room for a few hours thing, but it gets expensive. Besides, we end up having sex then just watching TV or leave the hotel to go out to eat. The time spend in the actual hotel isn't worth the cost of the hotel. I'd rather use that money for a good dinner out. So that's when the idea of having sex in the car popped into our heads.
We don't do this all the time ... maybe once a month, but it's fun and exciting and daring and of course there is that fear we will get caught by the cops or some other car driving by but the little secret spot we chose has been foolproof so far. I'm not telling you where, but it's a very desolate road.
We feel like kids again when we sneak out to do this. It's a giddy excitement that has brought us closer even. I'll also admit that once when the kids were all asleep, we went out to the car and had sex right there in our driveway. It allowed us to be a little more wild and not so quiet and worried the kids would hear us. I say, whatever works! As long as you and your partner are staying intimate and keeping each other happy, and you're not hurting anyone else, no one should have a problem with it. Still, I'll only confess this anonymously. Shhh!
Would you ever have sex in your car on a desolate road?
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