25 Signs Your Relationship Won't Survive Much Longer

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yelling coupleEven when a guy is obviously not The Right One, it can be hard to cut him loose. After investing months and even years, it's painful to admit you've failed at making your romance work. But you know what's even tougher? Being miserable every day. So check out this list of 25 signs your relationship is dying (or already dead) and consider changing your Facebook status to "Single" sooner rather than later. 

  1. He is constantly flirting with other women.
  2. He has started flirting with men.
  3. You like him, but don't love him.
  4. You love him, but don't like him.
  5. He rolls his eyes every time you come into the room.
  6. He wants his mother, whom you hate, to move in.
  7. You don't ever look forward to seeing him at the end of the day.
  8. He buys you a gym membership for Christmas.
  9. You don't want to do anything nice for him anymore.
  10. He never makes you feel special.
  11. He’d rather go bowling with his buds than celebrate your birthday.
  12. Your heart drops when you hear his car in the driveway.
  13. He’d rather fix something than have sex with you.
  14. When you have sex, all you can think is, "Let's get this over with."
  15. He compares you to other women.
  16. Lately, you bring out the worst in each other.
  17. He never says anything nice to you anymore.
  18. Your other couple friends don't like hanging around you guys anymore because you fight all the time.
  19. You pretend he's someone else when you are having sex.
  20. He is not supportive of your dreams.
  21. You bicker about stupid stuff all the time.
  22. You feel like you can't be honest with him.
  23. The tension between you two is affecting your kids.
  24. You keep waiting for him to change.
  25. He tries to change you -- even though you love who you are.

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lizzy... lizzy_ellie

Those are basically common sense, and sadly we tend to ignore them and hope for the best.

Jasmine Swenk

i can honestly say not one of these applies to my marrage, and that is saying something because normally at least one of these is part of the relationship i am in. I can't belive it i truly did find my soul mate :) 

Barbara Payne

when none of his jokes is funny none not one

Cassandra Huber

Well, none of that happens in my marriage, so we are ok.

mleil... mleilanim

If any one has to read 25 "clues" their relationship is headed for the toilet....they probably have better luck remaining single.

He rolls his eyes every time you come into the room.

Talk about insecurity if ANYONE stays in a relationship with ANYONE who does this.

Seriously, who does that?

LOL These were comical; but, nonetheless I'm sure some soul out there had a lightbulb go off.

TAG_u... TAG_ur_it

well, i wanted a gym memebership.  i'd have been pleased if he'd gotten it for me. 

nonmember avatar Karri

I want the gym membership. . . as long as he gets one for himself too.

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