Sex Confession: Wife Gets Frisky on Phone With Husband's Friend


telephone"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

Answering the phone is something we all do just about everyday. But one woman took her phone calls to a whole other level. Carrie-Ann* is a married mom of two pre-teens. She's been with her husband for "a thousand years" she says -- but really it's been nearly two decades. Her married is solid but a few months ago something weird has been happening on the phone with one of his friends. Something a little X-rated and totally wrong. But she loves it. I'll let Carrie-Ann explain.

It's so crazy this even happened with one of Roger's* best friends, but it did. And nothing else happened, I swear. All of the talking takes place on the phone. One day a few months ago Chris* called for Roger but he wasn't home at the time. We started talking like we usually do but there started to be a flirty tone somehow. I was talking about gardening and he said something about getting dirty and maybe my mind was in the gutter or something. Then a few days later Chris called again and Roger wasn't around again and there was definitely some major flirting going on. He told me how I must look so sexy working in the garden. I assured him I didn't but he went on to compliment me and I will confess that it really turned me on.

I hardly ever see Chris. Roger usually meets him after work or they do their thing on the weekends here and there. Chris is divorced -- not seeing anyone that I know of at the moment. We've all been friends for about six years now.

The calls continued. He even started calling when he knew Roger wasn't home. They got naughtier and naughtier and though I've never really touched myself while we were talking, I told Chris I was. They are the dirtiest, sexiest conversations I ever had with anyone and I feel terribly guilty but I also don't plan on ever acting out anything that was ever said between Chris and I. But I realize it's still a form of cheating. It would kill my husband if he knew. And now I don't know how to stop.

What do you think? How should Carrie-Ann end this phone sex affair she's having with Chris? Do you think it's cheating?


*Names have been changed.

Image via Sh4rp_i/Flickr

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youth... youthfulsoul

Absolutely it's cheating and heading to the point of no return. 

Casey Dalbey

hmm here is an idea. STOP ANSWERING THE PHONE if it is his info on the caller id. Eventually he will get the idea and stop calling except when your husband is actually home. BTW he doesn't sound like too great of friend to the husband.

redK8... redK8blueSt8

Wow. So you're having phone sex with this other guy and "don't know how to stop"?! Seriously, you've given yourself way too much slack in the responsibility-for-your-actions department. You've got two pre-teens, and know damn well you wouldn't let that sloppy excuse fly.

I'd bet dollars to donuts that this guy is thinking you're a bit trampy and that given the oppertunity you'd put words to action. A dirty joke/moment is one thing, carrying on the way you have is unacceptable and your husband deserves better from his wife.

nonmember avatar dug

Yes it's cheating. Filthy wench

nonmember avatar FM

You say you feel terribly guilty and yet you're still betraying your husband and your marriage vows by doing that? Who's to say your husband doesn't already know? He may be with 'Chris' when he calls you & has every conversation recorded. Who's to say 'Chris' isn't telling your husband what's going on? Ok, if he isn't doing that and doesn't know, I feel bad for him. His wife is cheating on him with his best friend and his best friend is something I will not say (too graphic) You're committing adultery.. Fess up to your husband and try to work it out. And cut that guy out of ya'll's life or inform him to not call when hubby isn't home anymore. He's got to go

hexxuss hexxuss

Think of it this way - if Chris were recording everything you said in your conversations, and played it back to your husband... what would happen?  In all reality, you can't be sure he's NOT.  I'd say the BEST way is to never had started.

Green... Greenmomma1018

Y'all need to stop judging her and being so aggressive....she admitted she had a problem and she is asking for help. Good lord! bad

I suggest putting a picture or two by each phone of your husband and when/if he calls you will see them and hopefully that will trigger something in you to tell him, NOT TODAY.

An addict must tell themselves....NOT TODAY, MAYBE TOMORROW, BUT NOT TODAY!!!  


Or start doing it with your hubby!!!good

nonmember avatar kramer1

i agree with PP yall are a bunch of judgemental people i bet all of you guys do stuff that u arent proud of... but heavens no ud never admit it...

nonmember avatar Flash

The next time he calls and starts to flirt, she should tell him that it needs to stop. Admit that it is exciting but that it's wrong and not fair to the husband.

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