There's more to sex than just sex. It can't just be an "insert here" and five minutes later be over. I guess, it can -- quickies are fun sometimes -- but not every single time. Enter foreplay! The thing we want to do but sometimes just don't have time to do but we really should do more often because it feels amazing.
I'm not just talking about your typical foreplay here either. Though finger play and oral can be totally mind-blowingly fantastic. Here are a few ideas to get you and your partner super hot for each other and halfway to orgasm.
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Sexting isn't just for really young and horny kids. It's for adults, too! And we do it better because everything is better as we age -- even sex. Send your lover some naughty words during the day, right before you are meeting, at night before he gets home from work, and you've got a jump start on getting it on. Sometimes something as simple as "I want you" or "I can't wait to feel you inside me" can really get the blood flowing.