Sex Confession: Married Couple Goes to Friend’s House to Get It On

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key in door"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

We all know how difficultt it can sometimes be to have sex in your own house when you have kids around. Some of us can get creative, but some of our kids are far too sneaky. Pauline and John* have three kids under 10, two dogs, and a cat. Someone always wants something. And naturally, Pauline and John really want each other. They have what may be the world's coolest solution: They go to a friend's house to have sex. It's a unique arrangement but it sure beats spending money on a hotel room. I'll let Pauline explain.

A couple of years ago, I was talking to my friend Amanda* about how it's hard for John and I to be intimate in the house. We do have our quickies, but we also like to have more than that sometimes, but with a full house it's not so easy. Amanda doesn't have any kids and she and her boyfriend don't live together. Amanda offered up her house, by arrangement, so we could have a sexual escapade for as long as we have the babysitter.

How it works is about once a month, I ask Amanda if a certain date works for her. She makes plans to be at her boyfriend's house and I make plans with the babysitter. John and I usually get take-out that night, bring it to Amanda's and have a romantic evening with just the two of us in the comfort of her home. We get to have sex for longer than 5 minutes and everyone is happy! Especially me. Quickies are fun but I cannot live on quickies alone.

Weird? Maybe. When I told another friend about it, she was sort of repulsed. I felt kind of embarrassed and assured her I wasn't telling her so I could have another sex den in her house. I avoided telling anyone else. It was actually Amanda's idea. And we've been friends forever. I'd do the same for her ... if I could. It's not like we are kids and making a terrible mess in her house. If we do, we clean up of course. It definitely beats the cost of a hotel for a few hours -- and is proof that good friends will help you out when you're in need.

What do you think of this confession? Do you wish you had a set-up like this?


*Names have been changed.

Image via Tawheed Manzoor/Flickr

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jalaz77 jalaz77

I don't cause I couldn't get comfortable enough knowing it wasn't our home or bed but that is a hell of a good friend, really! They are lucky to have her.

Coles... Coles_mom

I'm on the repulsed list. I would not be able to go home if I thought naked ass could have been on my kitchen table a few hours before. I'd most definitely never be able to sit on that bed or couch. Seriously disgusting.

Savannah Numinen

I don't, but boy I wish I did!!! I have maybe one friend who'd be this cool.

youth... youthfulsoul

Gross. Get a hotel room or wait for the kids to go to bed. I have 4 kids and I manage just fine.

linzemae linzemae

I could see my best friend and I doing this for each other. As long as we bring our own sheets

nonmember avatar Ellen

I agree with jalaz77 - I wouldn't feel comfortable doing it, but kudos to them for having a great friendship like that!

Aliya... Aliyahnangelo

 I wouldn't care. I would tell my girlfriend to have at it and just change the sheets when they were done. No biggie.

kjbug... kjbugsmom1517

Interesting. And very cost effective. Not to mention if the sitter needed ya ur right next door!

nonmember avatar Meg

Put me in the repulsed group too. Honestly I thought it was an unspoken rule that there is no hanky panky in anyone's home but your own. That being said, I had a friend do this to me. My husband and I had a friend and his girlfriend come stay with us a couple days. I ended up accidentally walking in on that fooling around. It was terribly embarrassing for all involved.

danit... danithegreat

Idk how I'd feel but man what a great friend I give props

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