"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.
Sometimes sex can be boring. Same old positions with the same person for years and years and chances are you've done them all thousands of times. To spice things up, 30-something year-old Pam's* husband Robert* decided to do something really romantic to make sure his wife is satisfied -- very satisfied. He took a sex class to learn a little more about some things he and his wife may be missing out on. Intrigued? I sure am! Let's hear more about what Pam's husband learned directly from her.
My husband loves to learn. He's always reading, studying things, wanting to know more and more. When we had our son, he was the baby guru and was basically my doula -- he learned infant CPR and became a car seat installation expert. He even helped our friends! He thinks you really need to learn new things every day and thankfully he took that learning to our sex life. Not that we needed it. We have always had a great sex life. I'm a super happy wife. But Robert wanted to takes things to a whole other level and he took an online sex seminar and learned so much.
I will admit that at first I thought it was a little weird. A sex what? Class? Why? But after we had our son, things changed a bit. The sex wasn't as frequent and we kind of fell out of groove with each other. Robert wanted to do something different to make sure I knew he still found me sexy and he wanted to pleasure me in new ways. And hello! Wow! He really did.
This might be TMI but you know how after you have a baby things are a little different down below? So I was having trouble and we used a lot of lube and I know that's typical. But I also wasn't at ease. I felt tense and couldn't relax during sex for some reason. These classes he took -- and what he learned in them -- put me at ease. It was slow and passionate and sexy and a little bit tantric but not for 3,000 hours type of tantra. He was tender and paid attention to my body in a way he never did before. Not that he was a bad love before -- I must stress that. But something changed. His focus maybe? It was amazing. It is amazing. I've had more orgams! I think every husband and wife should take a class about sex. It would make couples happier.
What do you think? Would you ever take a sex class? Would you want your husband to take it?
*Names have been changed.
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