We moms know that it's not just about what we're wearing in the bedroom, though I'd hardly say "no" to the gift of lingerie or sexy underwear.
Hey guys! We're visually stimulated too! so if you guys want to heat things up in the sack, or you ladies want more action, here's how to do it.
1. Great shoes
It's my "Crocs vs Docs" litmus test, which basically is: which is he more likely to wear? Ask any woman and she will tell you that you can tell a lot about a guy by his shoes. And no, I'm not talking about his shoe size. A man with excellent taste in shoes shows that attention to detail is important, which also happens to be a fabulous bedroom skill.
2. Hot underwear
Now similar to women's panties, preference does matter, but trust me, your woman has a preference. JUST ASK HER. And be willing to try something new if she asks. When in doubt, grab a pair of boxer briefs and call it a night.
3. Five 'o clock shadow
I realize that a little bit of scruff isn't everyone's cup of tea, but I'd say generally speaking, the five 'o clock shadow look is pretty attractive. Something about it just screams "bad boy" which can definitely be fun in the bedroom. Note to men: when it starts to get long enough where food is getting caught, be done with it.
4. Awesome cologne
Scents can be a risky business, but if you pick wisely, you can score big. I think it's a great idea to let your spouse come with you to choose a cologne, especially if you don't have a particular preference.
5. A sexy uniform
So maybe you don't have a spouse in an industry that requires a uniform, but that's okay, because it doesn't have to be a literal uniform (though that is pretty darn hot). Like women, guys should have their go-to "uniform," essentially an outfit that makes them feel great and look amazing. Whether that's khakis and an ironed polo or ripped jeans and a tight T-shirt, it's something that makes you feel confident and will turn your spouse on.
What's something your husband wears that makes you hot?
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