Sex Confession: Married Couple 'Cheat' On Each Other With Same Woman

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couple kissing"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

We often do things to spice up our love lives. Some use sex toys, others like lingerie, and Kayla* and Joseph* decided they just needed more date nights. So one night they hired a babysitter for their three kids and had an entire day and night planned full of fun activities just for them to reconnect. Neither of them would have predicted what ended up happening that night though. They both ended up kissing the same woman. Kayla will explain ....

We never go out -- just Joseph and me. We just don't have time or the extra money to hire a babysitter. But then we realized we haven't been on a date in forever, and so we saved some cash, planned a whole big day of stuff to do, and once the sitter arrived, off we went on our great adventure.

We started off four-wheeling, which is something we all love to do as a family, but when you're a parent, you're not really having your own fun -- well, I'm always worrying about my kids. So this time it was just Joey and me. We had so much fun we had to sneak back in the house to clean up and change before we went out to dinner. And dinner was so great. We started off eating way too fast as we always do with the kids, shoving food in our mouths while trying to make sure everyone else is eating and not feeding the dog. We slowed down, we talked, we laughed, we had a couple of drinks and even dessert. We savored every bite. Then we went to see a band play downtown at a club we used to go to before kids but hadn't been to in a very long time.

Joseph and I used to make out in the back of the club way back in the day. They have these booths and it's away from the main stage so you can sit there and actually talk without disrupting the band and still able to hear each other. We got real cozy back there and started kissing just like we used to. I got totally lost in the moment. It was the perfect date and just what we needed to reconnect. We were drinking, and I had three drinks at this point, which is a lot for me. And that's when these two girls came over to sit with us. They were flirty and gave me compliments and so did Joseph. I was on this high, feeling all special and happy and that's when it happened. One of the girls kissed me. She just leaned over and her lips were on mine. I looked over at Joseph and he smiled and started rubbing my leg. I kissed her back.

The other girl ended up leaving the booth and it was just me, Joseph, and Tara*. Then she started kissing my husband. In the moment it felt completely natural and great. We all kissed for a little while, there was some minor touching but all over clothes. There was giggling. And then the band we were all there to see started playing. That was the last we saw of Tara.

Joseph and I essentially cheated on each other with the same woman, at the same time. It felt great in the moment, but now it just feels weird. It's not something I ever want to do again and neither does he, but we did it. We don't really regret it but we also feel it's not something we would have ever done if we weren't tipsy. We also realized that we need to have date nights more often. Not to act all crazy and wild, but because if we don't have them enough when we do, we act all crazy and wild. We just need to get out more and have "normal" dates. 

What do you think of this confession? Have you ever done something like this with your husband?


*Names have been changed.

Image via Disco-Dan/Flickr

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linzemae linzemae

I wouldn't say they cheated on each other. It was a spur of the moment thing and neither were hurt. Since they have now decided to not do anything like that again, if one of them did then that would be cheating

Caera Caera


nonmember avatar blh

Lol lets sew how OK here husband would be with it if it was another man she was kissing.

tuffy... tuffymama

Um, it feels weird now because it is weird. And I also think that situation would have turned out MUCH differently had that been a strange man and not an anonymous woman. If you can't handle your liquor, stay sober in public. I hope you all didn't drive home like that.

Cynthia Parten

If both of you did it in front of each other, I'm not sure how that could be considered cheating. I don't see anything wrong with it. If it spices things up, that's great. Some people do threesomes to spice things up. I always told my husband I would not be able to do that, mainly because I would be too jealous to see my husband with another woman. If both of you know it was just a one time thing, don't take it so seriously. It's just a fun memory that you both can look back on and laugh. No big deal.

nonmember avatar kellie

My husband and I share a girl a few times a year. Its totally fun.

nonmember avatar banjo

Whats wrong with that. Sounds like fun to me. I wouldn't call it cheating when they are both there enjoyin the moment.

nonmember avatar Cherry

I saw this when it was on The United States of Tara. It was more interesting.

nonmember avatar kell

Why is it always the girl that has to go gay and never the guy? Society teaches us that girl on girl is hot as long as it is for the pleasure of a guy. But would you be okay if your husband and you kissed another man? The double standard is annoying.

Mark Gibson

It's not cheating when the other partner is right there, giving tacit permission.

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