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10 Delicious Ways to Have the Best Sex of Your Life This Year

by Aunt Becky on January 7, 2013 at 7:45 PM

It's that time of year again! The time where everyone vows to go back to the gym, tackle a new diet, or decide to finally quit smoking. And while those are all very noble goals, why not add a little something-something ... extra, if you get my drift.

Yes. Yes. I'm talking about sex! Why can't SEX be part of your New Year's resolutions in 2013?

So in that spirit, here are 10 ways to have the best sex of your life ... this year!

1) Try talking dirty. If you're too embarrassed, make sure you have the lights off, then try it. You may find you love it!

2) Get yer motor running. Send your partner sexy text messages throughout the day. By the time he gets home, you'll both be ready to crawl into bed.

3) Buy a new bra. I know, I know, everyone hates buying new bras - I do too. Here's a sexy tip: bring your guy with you and let him pick one out for you.

4) Bust out the toys. Sex toys, I mean. Let your partner in on a little of the vibrator action and see how you both like it.

5) Strap on your high heels and give him a sexy lap dance the moment he walks in.

6) Mix it up. Take a bath together as foreplay, change positions often during sex, use lubrication.

7) Share your fantasies with each other. You may be surprised by what REALLY gets each of your hearts beating fast.

8) Role-play. Like talking dirty, role-playing may seem a bit awkward and weird, but that's just because you haven't tried it. It's a perfect addition to everyone's sex life.

9) Get kinky with some real handcuffs. If you don't like being cuffed (or tied) to the bed, have him strap them on and take control of the situation.

10) Bust out the sweets. We all know how delicious chocolate and whipped cream are ... so why not take them to bed? One piece of advice: get ready to get down, dirty, and sticky. You can shower off later - together.

What are YOUR tips for a sexier new year?

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Filed Under: sex, sex confession, sex secret


  • Oh if...
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    Oh if only.

    January 8, 2013 at 8:15 AM
    1. He sucks as talking dirty. He can turn himself off!
    2. He leaves his unlocked phone around work all day
    3. Big boobs, he always begs for Victoria's Secret. They don't go that big!!
    4. Ok no complaints here
    5. I'd break my neck
    6 we don't fit together in our new tub. TOTAL mood killer finding that one out
    7. He has none?!?!
    8. He refuses
    9. This ones ok
    10. Haha with a 1 year old in the house we simply can't be quite so.... Unavailable

    I think I'm stuck in a boring sex life :(
  • Dar
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    January 8, 2013 at 11:21 AM
    Hang in there. I thought the same thing as you in my 20's, but now in our early 40's, we're insatiable for each other. I guess, if I were you though, I would get a sitter for your baby and plan a romantic evening alone.
  • celti...


    January 8, 2013 at 11:43 AM

    These were pretty "vanilla" things. I agree with Dar (above), with kids you do get stuck in a bit of a rut. We are in our late 40's & early 50's, and after 26 yrs of marriage, we are hotter for each other now than ever!  Confidence in yourself makes a huge difference.

  • tasha
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    January 8, 2013 at 12:03 PM
    With kids most of these is impossible
  • SaphireH


    January 8, 2013 at 3:36 PM

    for mewith kids its not impossible, my hubby and i pull off a lot of this list and we have 3 kids, theres other places in the house for when its during nap time and we have bed time too and since we live with his aunts they like to take the kids out to spoil them and theres our dont have to be quiet times

  • Chris...
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    Christine Therese Artis Johnson

    January 19, 2013 at 11:50 PM
    I love sending text to hubby, esp. when he is gone on a weekend... by the time he gets home we are both VERY ready to see each other
  • AJ
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    February 9, 2013 at 6:23 AM
    My great sex tip is to not assume your readers are hetero.
  • nikki
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    March 10, 2013 at 1:22 PM
    best sex tips . EVER !
  • Glorious
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    March 29, 2013 at 11:49 AM
    Kids around or not, it's also important to have a schedule for making love.
  • Tom
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    April 1, 2013 at 10:08 AM
    I love this site even I can't have any sex yet but I have sex with my boyfriend at school but no one knows any thing
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