Morning Sex Is the Secret to Actually Having Sex At All

Love & Learn 8

morning bed feetI believe I have found the secret on how to have more sex. Or for the couples who need to dust off some cobwebs down below ... the secret to actually having sex at all. Real one-on-one, body against body, that two-person tango, sex of the penetrating kind. The secret is morning sex. And you'll never guess who told me. No, it wasn't my husband (though he loves it in the morning). It was Hilary Duff.

We're not besties or anything; in fact, I'm not sure I've ever seen any of her movies, but she's adorable and I love the name she gave her son (Luca Cruz). And she likes to talk about sex. Specifically sex after having kids. Great topic, don't you think? Duff says that she and her retired hockey player hubby, Mike Comrie, are often too tired at night to get it on. Kind of surprising TMI, but I'm into that. So good morning sex it is!

US Magazine reported Hilary saying:

I'm so exhausted at the end of each day, so I'm like, "Can this not happen at night when I'm exhausted?" You find different times to do it.

Morning. Half-asleep. Bodies warm under the covers. Dream-like state. Sex. Sounds like the best way to start the day. You may have to wake up a little early so you can make love before your kid decides to get up, but totally worth it. Sex before coffee? It's really good. Makes your coffee taste better even.

If you're worried about your not-so-fresh breath, just save the kissing for later. Make out at night just before falling asleep. Have sweet dreams about what's to come in the morning. And then wake up and do it! The best morning sex position is lying down in case you're wondering -- on your side, man behind woman, spooning her. You can also get it on in the shower together. Whatever you do, just make it the first order of business.

Worth trying!

Do you think morning sex is the secret to actually having sex?

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the4m... the4mutts

I really wish that you writers would stop attempting to give sex advice. We're mostly adults here, and can figure out when, where, and how, to have sex on our own, I promise.

ethan... ethans_momma06


I'd love to agree with you but after being on this site for years... yes. There actually is a (large) group who need sex advice.

I think finding the right time is key. :)

the4m... the4mutts

Ethans_momma- I would like to see more sex advice gearing towards safer sex, romantic advice is always good, how you should pee after sex, new methods of bc we might not have heard of, etc.

It just irritates me that these fluffy "have sex in the morning" type advise blogs, insinuate that we couldn't think of it ourselves without a blogger telling us about it.

nonmember avatar guest

@The4mutts you sound like a self entitled complainer... wahhh its not what you wanted to click on today. Move the f* on.

nonmember avatar Joshua

the4mutts, congratulations on figuring this out yourself. This blog no more insinuates we couldn't come up with this idea on our own than any of the news-related blog entries insinuate we have no access to any other news source and couldn't figure out the details ourselves. For funsies, why not go and complain on all of the other entries and ask why they're bothering to blog at all?

ethan... ethans_momma06

I get what you are saying 4mutts, but I think that this sort of stuff can be a nice *reminder* ya know?Sometimes, you're tired, your brain just doesn't want to put the thought into something like sex, and BAM! there's the little fluff article encouraging you to try morning sex if you're in that sort of predicament.

If you'd like to see content geared more towards a certain direction, I'm sure that the bloggers would LOVE to know that. :)


tbruc... tbrucemom

It's a fact that a man's testosterone peaks in the morning so morning sex is a no brainer with men, it's the ladies that need a little coaxing sometimes. I personally enjoy it more either at night or being woke up in the middle of the night with my fiance being amorous, but I've come to enjoy morning sex too. It's not earth shattering but it is a nice way to start the day.

kateco2 kateco2

...having recently achieved the grand old age of 40, I have to agree with this article.  Morning sex seems to be much more satisfying on BOTH parts.  "Morning Wood" ain't just an old wives' tale, ya know...? ;)


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