Sex Confession: I've Never Experienced Real Foreplay

Say What!? 9

kissing"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

Thirty-two-year-old Sarah* admits she's been with a few guys before she met her husband. She will also admit that she's been having sex for over 10 years, so basically she's not new to the romping rodeo. But what she hasn't experienced is foreplay. Real, down and dirty, kinky and wild foreplay. Her husband is just not into it she says, and apparently the few guys she was with before she met the man she married didn't either. So she's never done a 69, never even really had oral sex. Let's hear more from Sarah on how she's not happy about what she's missing out on. 

I haven't been with anyone as long as I've been with my husband. The guys I dated before, well, they were short-lived romances. I'm happily married, I should point out. I love my husband, love our two kids, and I'm very happy with my life. I just wish my husband would be into doing more things sexually. He's gone down on me maybe three times. I've given him oral only a few times. He's just not into it. I don't know why -- we never really talked about why. But after all these years -- we've been married for six years -- I want to try new things. I've never even done a 69. That may seem crazy to some people, and maybe it's not all that it's cracked up to be, but I still want to try it.

I know I need to talk to him. Get to the root of the problem, if there is one, and find out why he doesn't want to have any foreplay with me. We have sex, but it's literally two seconds of kissing, some lube, and in he goes. I want more. I think I deserve more. I'm just so nervous about talking to him about it. What if it creates a tension in our relationship? I think we're in a good place, we are happy, aside from me wanting more sexually. But then I think it's silly. It's just sex. I don't want to make a big deal out of it, but ... can a wife just get some foreplay?

What do you think of Sarah's confession? Does your partner enjoy foreplay? Do you wish you had more? Should Sarah talk to her husband?

 

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